asking a girl out that u r kind of friends with

[theAutoman10]

For a year now this girl and i have been good acquantinces and somewhat friends. over the last few months I have really started to like this girl. I have never asked a girl out before. I am overweight, I dont think im that attractive, have low self confidence, Im not very funny, I dont have many friends, and i am VERY SHY. I really want to ask her out but I feel as if a rejection is inevitable or she "just wants to be friends". Do u have any advice? Please help me!

[galen]

Are you comfortable around her? If you are then its easier to be humorous. Try not to be uptight, being nervous will make her nervous too. Just be yourself, there has to be something she appreciates about you if both of you are friends : ).

[Mr. Smithers]

Don't be shy. Just go up to her. Talk to her, get to know more about her if you are still nervous.

If you are scared that she will reject you, don't be. If she does, it's not the end of the world. You will find the right person for you.

[Nelson]

Yeah i have the same problem, i really like this chick and she is HAWTTTTT, we talk about guys and stuff, really open, but she doesnt want to go out with me

My advice : Just be close to her, talk about what she likes

[Asylum]

don' t be shy jsut go up to her and ask her out what do you have to lose? i went out wiht my best friend.

[theAutoman10]

thank you everyone for your advice. I asked her out and she said YES!!!!!!!!

[anthonysayhi]

If you really like her ask her out and if you get rejected then if its true love you will see in the future

[Hollywood]

u sound just like me. i'm not much to look at, i have very few friends, and i dont talk to anyone who dosent approach me first, and even then, sometimes not. that means i sometimes become attracted to the few girls i talk to. of course, i can tell when a girl just wants to be friends, i just get that "no" vibe.

honestly, just ask her out...go for it. if she says no, thats fine. u can still be friends. theres 7 billion people on this earth, youll find someone else, thats what makes me feel better.

EDIT: sorry, i didnt read ur reply

congrats! maybe ill get lucky too. but first, i need a friend thats a girl.

[Shipley]

But if you ask a girl out and she rejects you your friendship won't be the same and as cloes becuse that will always be there that you tryed to ask her out

[CaluM.]

Your exactly in the same position I am. :\

[magikarpy]

Don't get creepy.
Your feelings could ruin a perfectly good friendship if you go about this the wrong way. My rule is better to be friends then not being in there life at all. I would just be the best friend she could possibly have, lightly flirt, drop hints, but other then that just hope she likes you back.

Most girls are pretty intuitive. It's possible she already knows you like her and is mulling over the best way to handle it.

[relapse]

im in the smae place mate, but i dont know what to say, when or how to say it. because i see her only on fridays at this youth club [religeous based] and her older brother goes to my school... HEEEELP!