View Full Version : i hate my friends and am beginning to be anti social
thedudeman
February 28th, 2010, 09:22 PM
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Mr. Smithers
February 28th, 2010, 09:33 PM
Maybe you just need time to yourself. It's your senior year, it's almost time to leave and move on with your life. I would just ignore the people you used to hang out with. As you can see, they are not very nice people.
I'm glad you found a hobby that you enjoy doing. Your wounds will heal.
Just don't let them get to you. You will find some new friends. Just worry about finishing school, and play hackeysack if you feel upset.
Fusion
March 1st, 2010, 07:25 PM
It seems that it will probably help if you had some alone time, your friends don't seem like friends at all to me or very little caring friends after they laughed at you, friends shouldn't do that, I would suggest hanging out with yourself for a while see how things go, even meet some new people like at footbag?.
School is the main part for you, being in your senior year I know it can be very stressful and the last thing you want is problems from friends. I hope you knee gets better so you can continue what you love :) (footbag)
Contra
March 4th, 2010, 12:30 PM
You really should ignore stupid friends, because they aren't real friends. Or, instead of ignoring them, try to find a common interest with them, go somewhere else instead of the skate park, do other things. Maybe they like any of your 1213111212 hobbies.
You can find new friends and talk to other people too.
My last suggestion is to survive the rest of your senior year in high school without friends, doing what you like, focusing on your studies... I don't know.
Hope I helped somehow... :)
tnn_94
March 9th, 2010, 11:18 PM
no, this doesnt mean you are depressed or anything. it just means you have crappy friends (no offense) try finding better friends that you'd actually like to hang around with.
ohh and that footbag thing looks crazy! haha its like hackysack but 10x's more intense. that looks sooo cool (:
HellHound
March 12th, 2010, 04:15 PM
Man your just like me.Same problem only that i have 2 close friends and the rest dont matter
overcome.
March 15th, 2010, 09:33 AM
I'd rather have little (or no) friends instead of fake friends, I can't stand fake people. I appreciate honesty, at least you know where you stand in any kind of friendship. I don't understand why you'd want to spend your time practising kicking a little bag around, but everybody to their own. Focus on what you want to focus on, focus on yourself and your own interests. It's not selfishness, it's called self love. This is what's important in the long run, not fake people.
You'll get friends in life, some will go, the good ones will stay for at least a while. Don't worry about it, you're young and you have a long path ahead of you. Stay true to yourself and believe in yourself without settling for the company of people who aren't really your friends. I did the same thing, I left behind negatively, now I have more time to focus on what I want to focus on, including the friends that really matter.
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