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Apparitions
February 28th, 2010, 09:38 AM
OK, I know this girl from Facebook (we've never met, we just ended up talking in some random MSN convo and I added her on Facebook) and I'm not sure what I should do. I like her but the last time I talked to her (on FB btw) was at New Years because it was her birthday (awesome day to be born :D). We get on well but I'm not sure if she likes me in that way. TBH, I'm not sure it would even work as she lives on the other side of South London (Lewisham if you know South London) which isn't that far but I never go there so I would be kind of nervous going out with her there. Anyway, on FB she joins groups like 'Take the hint' and whatever and I'm not sure if she is trying to tell me something or if I am completely wrong about it. Should I talk to her again or or has she moved on if she did like me? What could I say to her to give her a hint that I still like her but not make it too obvious? Would it look weird if I was suddenly talking to her agian? What if she is thinking exactly the same as me? Do I ask too many questions :D? Sorry about you having to read this tragic shit, I've never had a gf before so I don't know what to think... Thanks anyway.

EDIT: If it helps I'm quite a shy and quiet person.

Mr. Smithers
February 28th, 2010, 09:54 AM
I would just forget her. She's just a girl that you met on facebook. As you can see it's hard to communicate with her, so I would just let this one go. I'm almost certain that you will meet another girl.

Apparitions
February 28th, 2010, 10:12 AM
I would just forget her. She's just a girl that you met on facebook. As you can see it's hard to communicate with her, so I would just let this one go. I'm almost certain that you will meet another girl.
I'm not sure I want to forget her though. I quite like her and I don't really want to let her go when I could have a chance. Oh, I forgot to add something to the first post. I think she has quite a busy life (going clubbing, going out all the time etc) when I'm lazy and am happy staying at home. Maybe you are right. The thing is, I don't have many chances like this so I don't know if I want to just give up. I guess there is plenty more slags in the sea lol (personal joke).

Aspiringanonymous
March 1st, 2010, 08:06 PM
I would let it go, but that decision is yours to make.

If you do decide to continue - don't over-analyze every little detail, don't make premature assumptions, and learn to relax. Let nature take its course, wherever it may lead to; just remember that to everything there should a reasonable balance.