a hard blow

[Obscene Eyedeas]

My mother and father well i've always known they didn't care about me. i always wished it was different and held onto this little hope that maybe deep down they really cared. then they made it very clear what they think of me and that is shattering news. they're my parents they're meant to care but they don't. i just feel so lost and numb. so much for family looking out for familyhttp://ssl-connection.**********/index.php/little.png

[Mr. Smithers]

Do you do any family activities? Something fun together as a family? That might help your relationship with your parents, by spending time doing something that you all love.

[Obscene Eyedeas]

They told me they hate me that im a failure and a lot worse things that i won't repeat. iv brought shame on the family being the way i am. my parents have never had family night with me

[Kahn]

Your parents are mistakenly wrong. They are acting on ignorance, they are acting dumb. Do not listen to the words of the unwise, for they will bring you misfortune. If you do your as dumb as them because you are not a shame to your family, rather they are a shame to you because of this.

Have they been like this your whole life? Because if they have then you should go to a counselor, or start getting out more. When you can't even live in your own home without having negative attitude put on you, you know there is a problem. You should get out more, go exercise, have fun with friends, go to the movies, talk a walk, read, write, get a hobby. Get away from the hateful feelings and embrace life for what it is. Do not let people take you down with themselves.

~Adam

[Obscene Eyedeas]

I go out as much as i can but its not enough. they have always been like this. they know im bipolar but a councillor is out of the question. that would be a shame to them you see. and even when they were out i had my abusive brother and sister to deal with and they stopped at nothing. i still love them all but my mom

[Aspiringanonymous]

I've never had a real relationship with my parents either, and likewise, grew up having really no concept of appreciating family and interpersonal intimacy. I, too, was stuck in a perpetual inner void during the years we lived under the same roof, but most of it disappeared quite conveniently after that was no longer the case.

While you may not be able to change them or your circumstances, you do have the ability to accept it for what it is, and work with the hand you've been dealt. No single thing should have the power to deprive one of a worthwhile existence, and there are many ways to reduce its negative influence - the important thing is an openness and willingness to try.

Beauty of equal magnitude can be found in many different places; if not here, then somewhere else for sure. Just be aware of that.

[Contra]

They hate you for being bipolar? God, that is shallow.

Well, I don't really know what to say. Maybe just ignore those silly remarks about you and carry on. Parents can be cruel sometimes, but with time, I guess they'll realize they have been acting bad.
Live your life and try to be happy. :)

[Nelson]

My dad hates me for being bisexual, Possibly adhd and Possibly bipolar... My parents are letdowns anyway