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Pudd
February 27th, 2010, 02:45 PM
'ive met a guy that I like and we talk a bit on MSN but he doesnt say much, usually like 1 word answers and then doesnt say anything for ages. How can I get him to talk more?

Mr. Smithers
February 27th, 2010, 03:03 PM
Not much.

You're a complete stranger to him.

I wouldn't suggest meeting him somewhere in real life though. That's kind of a bad idea.

I would just get to know more about him. But don't get to personal.

If it's someone on msn I doubt the friendship is going to turn into a relationship.

nick
February 27th, 2010, 03:03 PM
Some people aren't good at small talk, finding things to say. I'm pretty much like that myself. Find out about his interests and hobbies and try asking about those?

Pudd
February 27th, 2010, 03:24 PM
Ive already asked about what he likes doing, he just gave me a list and that was it >.<

Mr. Smithers
February 27th, 2010, 04:33 PM
Like I said, its just someone that you talk to on messenger chat. There's only so much you can do with this person.

Pudd
February 27th, 2010, 07:06 PM
I understand that but if not a relationship then a good friendship will suffice, on the off chance he will say something and strike a conversation, but not often