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Suicide1995
February 27th, 2010, 01:07 PM
My parents are abusive verbally still even though DCF is involved what do i do

Magus
February 27th, 2010, 01:10 PM
Well, I know a friend whom his parents are really having heavy vulgar language, and it seemed OK to say what ever they want. To him, to me and everyone.

Some parents are like that. They just curse on any one and anything.

You sure your parents are just targeting you with their language?

Watchfulness
February 27th, 2010, 02:22 PM
Well, I know a friend whom his parents are really having heavy vulgar language, and it seemed OK to say what ever they want. To him, to me and everyone.

Some parents are like that. They just curse on any one and anything.

You sure your parents are just targeting you with their language?

Endure the abuse or flee.

BeautifulDisaster
February 27th, 2010, 02:59 PM
Just because you use "vulgar language" doesn't mean it's okay, nor does it mean that's the type of verbal abuse this person gets.
It's NEVER okay to be abused in any way, shape or form.
EVER.
Do NOT try and excuse it or try and make it something that is okay to do.

OP -
I'd recommend getting out of there as soon as you can if it's causing you distress.

Suicide1995
February 28th, 2010, 06:33 PM
I can take the abuse who thinks i should Kill Myself

2D
February 28th, 2010, 06:47 PM
I can take the abuse who thinks i should Kill Myself

I think you should grow up and do something about it. Confront them, or get out. Killing yourself is just stupid.

lengthy_brochure
February 28th, 2010, 09:23 PM
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Asylum
March 1st, 2010, 12:57 AM
suicide is a permanent solution to a non permanent problem.. its never the answer... call a help line... or call social services get a new family get out of there if you can't take it.. .its never worth killing over anything. talk to an adult, seek help for yourself. killing yourself doesn't really solve a problem, but creates more problems... for example what if it goes wrong... i'll give an example you go to hang yourself but don't do it properly then end upi in a wheel chair, and how will your parents act to your failed suicide attempt... see the sitation worsens? not to mention if it does work all those people who will be hurting after.... seek help dont resort to suicide

Fusion
March 2nd, 2010, 02:02 AM
I can take the abuse who thinks i should Kill Myself

Suicide is not a good option, I think you should confront your parents about this issue, I think they will hopefully understand you, say you don't want to sworn at. Can you try to ignore them when they start doing this?, like go for a walk?, I know that maybe hard for you to do but I think a walk will help.

You could tell somebody about it, like a school councillor?, or family such as grandparents, uncles, aunties etc?, I think it would be better if one of the family members did speak to your parents about it before a councillor gets involved.

I hope everything works out for you.

Scarface
March 2nd, 2010, 06:37 AM
suicide is a very ignorant thing to do wait for dcf to take action. there is nothing more you can do otherwise running away can cause further remorse hope this helps

Pirate
March 9th, 2010, 11:46 AM
I can take the abuse who thinks i should Kill Myself

I hate to critisize people's posts, but it irritates me when people ask if we think you should kill yourself.
First of all, you know that none of us are going to say you should.
And secondly, even if someone did - you don't know us.. I mean, would you really slit your wrists or take an overdose because someone over the internet went "Yeah, sure go for it!"

Especially as you say you can take the abuse. It's giving up when you don't need to, and you should never give up anyway.

CuriousDestruction
March 9th, 2010, 03:09 PM
Rosie is right, don't ask us if we think you should kill yourself. you know we don't think so. we never think so.

as for the verbal abuse. i recommend you inform DCF of specific examples or take a sound recording of what they say. although you do have to define verbal abuse because that matters. what exactly are they saying?

BeautifulDisaster
March 9th, 2010, 03:32 PM
I personally don't think it matters what they are saying, if it is affecting someone, it doesn't matter, but that's just me.