should i tell him?

[Kotaro]

ok so i am gay and i am to sure if i can ever tell him because he hates gays

[guacamole24]

Him? Who is him?

[Kotaro]

sorry i ment to put my dad

[tripolar]

It's your choice if you want to tell him, do you want to tell him? Do you feel like it would help you out if you told him? Why do you feel that he should know. All of those should be put into consideration first.

[guacamole24]

Your dad's gonna have to accept you no matter who you are since you are his son. Although it is your decision in deciding whether to tell him or not, he should know eventually. Just my opinion.

[josh93]

its your choice and if you tell him he will have to accept you anyway like the outhers said.

[CuriousDestruction]

really depends on your situation. PM me if you wanna talk about it.

[that kid]

While I didn't say I was gay, my dad found out I was curious and I always thought he was homophobic because he would always make fun of gays and say faggot but he took it pretty well and told me that I'm his son no matter what.

[Dreaming Cannibal]

Your dad's gonna have to accept you no matter who you are since you are his son. Although it is your decision in deciding whether to tell him or not, he should know eventually. Just my opinion.


Okay im tired of reading this crap over and over again
Just because he is ur father he wont accept you
HE DOESNT HAVE TO
it is nicer when he does and sure less stress over who to date who to bring home what to talk about in fam reunions and shit…

Tell you're father if you want to or u feel u need to.

But think about it and be wise about your decision.

[DjDream]

Well do u really need to tell him? If not just keep to urself until ur 100% he is going to accept u

[georgiamay]

i think if your sure your ready to tell him, then go ahead. Make sure your prepared for how he might take it, and when you feel ready, then tell him if you want to, its your decision

I know someone who told their parents they were gay when they were ready, and they said they were glad they did it when they did and not sooner.

but thats just my opinion :)
good luck

[Dannybre]

listen, he is your dad, you should tell him. He will love even if you are gay. Even if he doesn't show it, he is on the inside. It could be really good for him to find out his kid is gay. He might overcome his homophobia. There is no reason why he wouldn't still love you.

[Dannybre]

Your dad's gonna have to accept you no matter who you are since you are his son. Although it is your decision in deciding whether to tell him or not, he should know eventually. Just my opinion.

Okay im tired of reading this crap over and over again
Just because he is ur father he wont accept you
HE DOESNT HAVE TO
it is nicer when he does and sure less stress over who to date who to bring home what to talk about in fam reunions and shit…

Tell you're father if you want to or u feel u need to.

But think about it and be wise about your decision.

To tell you the truth, he is going to have to accept you eventually. You are his kid, and if he never accepts you, what kind of father is he. "Love breaks all bounds" just remember that. He might not like gays, but he loves his children, which kind of causes the scale to tip towards you, more than towards hating gays. PM me if you want to talk about this.

[Nelson]

I was worried to tell my friend, and then i told him and he was like Oh ok, aslong as you dont crack on to me, he was homophobic xD

[Magus]

Every one accept me on how I am. They know I am into those banged up peoplr(no offense intended)

And my father, I told him. And he gave me a lecture back.

It is a racial thing.

[Dreaming Cannibal]

To tell you the truth, he is going to have to accept you eventually. You are his kid, and if he never accepts you, what kind of father is he. "Love breaks all bounds" just remember that. He might not like gays, but he loves his children, which kind of causes the scale to tip towards you, more than towards hating gays. PM me if you want to talk about this.

>_ > you are just a gullible and idiotic child aren't you? whoever the person is, doesn't matter if it's your mother father sister or anyone doesn't and i repeat Doesn't have to accept you.
A human being isn't obliged to do something because he must.
And for your information, maybe i don't know his case, his father might not love him, at least not enough to see pass the sexuality of his offspring.
The one thing i'm saying by this…*think hard before saying anything that might and will change your life such as telling your father about your sexuality.

might not be helping at all, or maybe im making a kid think… might wanna think about it more before you rep…

[Asylum]

your choice to tell him. good luck, he will always love you no matter what

[Scarface]

ok first of all i think you should wait untill you move out of your parents house because if you come out and they don't agree with it they could make your life miserable, but when you move out of the house they can't control you. if you tell them now he could take things away from you remove priviliges prevent you from hanging out with friends it could get ugly. i hope this helps. pm me if you want someone to talk to

[SimplyTom]

well its ur choice but i wouldnt leave it too long so i would get it off ur chest