Just a tool :(

[Mattyboy2]

Hi I've recently got a b/f who is a year and a bit older than me, we've been friends for ages and then one thing led to another etc. but how do I know he not just using me to experiment or just for fun like a tool?

Thanx help much appreciated

[Mr. Smithers]

You really can't. You just have to trust that he is going to be trustful and truthful. You should also do the same if you want to have a good relationship.

[Tiberius]

P101 :arrow: TS

[Fruit_Tart.]

you jus gotta trust him like above^^. and i have a crush on my bess frenn and i sorta trust him and idk if he'd use me as a tool. i guess it jus all on trust.

[ErykaInspire.]

First off, I know i'm a girl, but this is more related to Relationships and Dating than puberty.

The best thing to do is to talk to him about your insecurities. A solid relationship is based on Trust, Honesty, Loyalty, and Being able to talk about what's on your mind. Keeping things from him will make him think that maybe you aren't that interested in him as he was hoping.
Don't get too worked up/worried about it until you talk to him.

Best of luck,
x

[Fruit_Tart.]

TOTALLY AGREE!!!^^^ haha.

[Dannybre]

does he love you? Do you love him? Just try to take it slow

[manlymadness]

Well first of all dont have sex with guy and say that to him and if he leaves then hes a totally

[nick]

Talk to him, ask him if he loves you or if its just sex. You need to be honest with each other and should be able to talk.

[teen_vt]

talk to him... if he really cares about you, he will talk and listen

[KChiChi]

yeah.. talk to him. just talk to him. easy peasy :P

[Zero Beat]

Hi I've recently got a b/f who is a year and a bit older than me, we've been friends for ages and then one thing led to another etc. but how do I know he not just using me to experiment or just for fun like a tool?

Thanx help much appreciated

This is kinda the thing where you need to ask him how he sees this relationship is going. If he 'loves' you or if he just wants you for pleaser.

[DayBreakArt]

Don't rush things. I can't say much more because it's all been said. Just trust him and make sure you trust him before you do anything.

[DjDream]

Its quite impossible to tell. Only time will show you the answer

[Mattyboy2]

Great all resolved: yea I was a tool just to experiment with, I saw him kissing someone else down our usual hang out. Wow makes u feel great doesn't it :(

[nick]

Great all resolved: yea I was a tool just to experiment with, I saw him kissing someone else down our usual hang out. Wow makes u feel great doesn't it :(
Really sorry mate, what an arsehole. Better luck next time.

[ErykaInspire.]

You'll find someone better, hun. Try not to get too worked up over him, he's not worth your time. It'll get better <3 x

[Scarface]

i would take things slow get to know him a lot better not in a sexual sense though tell him if he asks to have sex with you that you prefer to wait and if he flakes then you will know, but if you rush things you could have your heart broken hope this helps pm me if you want to talk

[teenmanchester]

Trust and as you say you've been friends for ages.

[Harley Quinn]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: