Argueing

[cooldude123]

Well, i have never posted anything like this.

My parents lately have been argueing a lot, and my mom said some is down to me. Like sometimes she defends me, and therefore an arguement is started. Yesterday my dad even walked out and came back 2 hours later, not speaking to anybody.

I have also been getting into a lot more arguements too, but i blame puberty personally. I follow my dad in the way that i never say sorry, or give up an arguement. Do not say i need to change, because i naturally can't. I have tried before. I'm scared something bad will happen, like my parents splitting up. I realluy don't want this to happen because i'm starting my GCSE's on tuesday (Year early).

What should i do?

[zacset]

You say you can't change; but from personal experience I advise you to stop being so defensive - even if you know you're in the right - and just try to be reasonable. Tell your parents you want to discuss it and work it out. If they have anything about them they will be please/impressed at your maturity. And then, follow it through by adhering to the things discussed. If you're like me and just can't get on with your parents, do the above. And just stay out of their way as much as possible- avoiding conflict.

Hope this helps you :)

[Dannybre]

One thing you definitely need to do is stop being stubborn. Everybody hates stubborn people. You gotta realize when you are wrong. Accept that other ppl will be right.

[Hatsune Miku]

Parents will always have arguments, even the closet couple.
If you really want this to stop, here's what I would do. Next time you see them both, tell them to sit down. Then tell them If you loved me you would both stop with these fights. Then talk to them about it.

Another thing is, stepping into the arguments isn't really a good idea. When you step in your mom will try to defend you, that heightens the argument. ( I know this from personal experience )