View Full Version : Really confused
wazzler7999
February 25th, 2010, 10:33 AM
I been stressing out about this lately because a year or two ago i figured it was a stage and i'd get over it, I like guys physically but have no emotional feelings for them whatsoever and i only like girls emotionally and i cant get aroused to them, lately my gf has been pushing for a more physical relationship and im worried about if i cant get hard or not i cant imagine my future being with a guy only for the sole reason that i want kids of my own and a emotional/physical relationship with a girl, i can imagine having sex with girls and like the thought.
Charizard8
February 25th, 2010, 12:39 PM
Honestly, you are too young to be having sex. Trust me, you do not want kids at your age. They are a hastle and take up most of your time, energy, and resources. Anyway, you do not have to have kids through sex. You can always adopt a child, or have invitro performed. If you love her enough, you might find that despite her gender, you would be willing to have coitus with her. I'm just here to help! :D
nick
February 25th, 2010, 12:49 PM
Philly, from your post I cant decide whether I think you are really confused or in some form of denial. You cant make yourself straight just because you want kids. You have a girlfriend, well most guys would get horny just from serious kissing with a girlfriend, and would certainly get erect if there was any "heavy petting". So if you've done those things and not got horny then its probably a bad idea to try anything further.
KChiChi
February 25th, 2010, 01:04 PM
curiosity...? idk
i was in denial... but now i'm officially attracted to girls as well as guys. but you're a guy, so i don't know how you feel.
Dannybre
February 26th, 2010, 11:02 AM
curiosity...? idk
i was in denial... but now i'm officially attracted to girls as well as guys. but you're a guy, so i don't know how you feel.
kool, I'm into girls too lol XD
Anyway, you wanna watch out wit having kids, I know exactly how difficult it can be to father a child
Dannybre
February 26th, 2010, 11:03 AM
You know what, you might have ED. Do you have a hard time gettin erect in general?
KChiChi
February 26th, 2010, 11:27 AM
that might be it...
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