gay or lesbian... we're all just queer :)

[KChiChi]

okay, where i live, people are more likely to accept lesbians rather than gays. i'm not really affected by that -i'm bi, i'm a girl and no one really nows but VT -but i'm just concerned. i once met a gay guy and he was completely blown off by his friends. i have to admit that i also felt odd around him because, then, i hadn't realised that i was attracted to girls.
then, a friend of mine came out as lesbian. she wasn;t really accepted by the girls, but the guys thought she was cool. she didn't get as much rejection as the gay guy though... why? the gay guy got a whole load of ass-whoopin, lost all his friends and even moved because he was scared. the lesbian girl is still in my school and happy.
it's so unfair sometimes that i feel sorry for guys out there.

[Magus]

To easily to conceal gay guys where I live is to show themselves as
intersex, hermaphrodite or the 3rd-Gender as we call them here. And they must have
medical proof on that as well.

[KChiChi]

yeah, i know that but what if you decide to come out to your friends. your friends would defitely take it bad, right?

[Zanra]

Double standards. Generally, guy see gay guys and think "he'll hit on me an try to rape me and he's wrong for it" and that's a generalization that's incorrect and generally guys say "lesbians are hot I wanna be friends with lesbians to see girl on girl action" also wrong stereotype.

And girls don't have a stereotype of gays but my point is gay guys are viewed as wrong and lesbians are viewed as awsome. It's just the stereotype

[Magus]

Gay guys here are thought of those who are always the receiving end. And if we are the giving end, we are not considered gay.

[KChiChi]

end?? anyway, why the stereotype. i think, if gays and put down then the rest should. even bi (which i am) because its unfair... we're all the same.