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italiano_latino2010
February 25th, 2010, 12:42 AM
idk if this is where i should put this but basicly theres this girl i like that ive known since i was in 7th grade and ive liked her since. so i tried to talk to her about it and she said that im her friend and she likes me to but she doesnt want to loose me as a a bestfriend...and she does stuff like kissing me on the cheek and hoolding my hand, and grabbing my hand and putting it on her boob?..so how do i make her see me as more then a friend?
Disconected
February 25th, 2010, 12:58 AM
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Katrina
February 25th, 2010, 05:36 AM
Please don't hurt her feelings by advancing. She is liking you as a friend which she has said, so you also see her as your best friend.
Kaius
February 25th, 2010, 08:04 AM
You can't physically force her to see you more than a friend, but if shes worried about losing her best friend, you need to reassure her that if you were to become a couple you would still be her best friend. It seems to me that she likes you from the signs you've written about, Unless she does that to other people as well. Good luck
KChiChi
February 25th, 2010, 08:29 AM
i think you should just ask her out. there's this one thing called making a promise -it's awkward, but let it be awkward. go for what yo u want but before that, both of you make a promise that if you break up, it won't come between your friendship. its too special -let her understand that. don't be pompous and be all, 'we're so vibing, let make out', that won't work. be sensitive and just tell her how terrified you were. and promise that it won't come between you guys.xxx
maddii-may
February 25th, 2010, 11:16 AM
i had a friend with benifits and when he asked me out i thought yeaa okay and i gave itt a go and it worked for a bit then i ended it now and me and him are bffl again there is nothing wrong with girls doing this but she probs doonesnt no who she feels about you? x
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