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Asylum
February 24th, 2010, 08:20 PM
ok.... so i have this bf... and this best friend, who constantly fight... my bf thinks my best friend likes me... he has threatened him, and cursed him out... i talked to him... talking to him didn't really work... as you can tell they both still really strongly dislike each otehr... and the irony is they are sooo much a like.... my bf feels like i stick up for my best friend too much.. when i dont', i just state why he feels so.. for example he made a nasty post about me, yes i did laugh, but hey i was shocked, and well i'm extremel tired of this!!!, ok back to point.. i merely stated why he was frustrated and he has every right to be like you do.. no my boyfriend isn't obsessive.. he just cares and doesn't want to lose me... this whole hting is stupid and funny two peopel who are soo much alike hate each other... "he's so confident he can beat me up" is what you said... well in response... thats because he is good at Tae Kwon Doe... if you too get involved phsycially ifghitng i will never speak to either of you again... i'm really getting tred of the fighting... can you guys please stop... its unneccessary.. stop purposely disagreeing wit each other nd trying to annoy each ohter on my statuses on facebook... yes at one point i thought he liked me, but not anymore. can you guys try to get along? you don't need to worry about my relationship with him... i'm not one to ever cheat... and we dont' call eac other every night haven't spoken to him in days.. yes, i stayed up with him and am there for him when he needs me, just like i wa there for you.... just like i'm there for anybody... same situation i was in with my ex with you jajaja.... he can't kep me up anymore because of my phone curfew so i think you shouldn't be worried... and yes, i feel the same way whe you get upset or last year when i spent hours on the phone with you... please don't worry about this... honestly i do this ith eveyrone... why do you think i love this site... iove hlping people... and i'm not planning on losing either one of you... i care a lot about you too... and i hate it when you fight... it hurts... especially when i have to get involved and try to be the peacemaker ad try to calm you boht down... "He plays the victim to get her attention" no he does not... please odnt' say that.... he has reasons to be upset... and i wish we could talk mroe.. i mean we do have play practice on our breaks we could be talkign then... usually we aren't. other then that homework runs our lives... and in school i dont' see you... and both our weekends are hectic.... you knwo i'm always willing to talk after 10. and hey.... jajaja is a really nice guy... i care a lot about him... so please dont' say that... just stop trashing each toher for goodness sake!!! sure we have our rows like every other couple... but we work things out... we get through things... he is a good person just like you and should not be caleld that.... i'm trying my best to be neutral here, but when you both are gosh awfu to the other... i will take te other's side... he has his reasons to be angry... to be honest i'd be angry if it was the other way around.. i understand hwo he feels.. and i'm sorry... i'm sorry to the both of you... i wish we could all just be friends.. i know it will never happen.. but i wish for itsoo much... no more nosense please... please...jsut don't talk to each other...

CORRECTION: he says...he did not threaten you he siad "or else" however i'm taking a neutral opinion on this ...

AllThatIsLeft
February 24th, 2010, 08:26 PM
moved -> R&D

Make sure you post threads in the right sections.

Asylum
February 24th, 2010, 10:26 PM
sorry!

Marcie
February 25th, 2010, 10:52 AM
A few things to say in response to this:
How are we alike?
Do not forget Jujitsu and wrestling. ;)
The only way I would ever fight him is if he attacked me. And he does, I will defend my self, as necessary. I will never assault him.
I was not purposefully disagreeing with him, he is the only one purposefully disagreeing, with his, “I disagree,” to everything I said…
Jajaja has not given me any reason to believe he is a nice guy. The majority of out interactions have been hostile, on his part.
Keep in mind that, in the beginning, I was perfectly willing, and happy, to be his friend.
I will admit that my comment, “probably the most horrible person I've ever met in my life..” was out of line, and I would like to apologize for it.
Jajaja, I am sorry for my inaccurate, inappropriate words towards you. I was wrong in my course of action and those words were uncalled for. I would like to ask for your forgiveness.
As you can see, I have had that post removed.
Also, please note that that was the only pass I have made towards him. In addition to that, please recognize I hade merely posted that to blow off steam, not to attack him, for if I had wanted to attack him I would have used him name in the post, or I would have made the comment directly to him.

In conclusion, I shall regretfully announce that, in regards to our relationship, (my relationship with Magik5) it has come to my attention this relationship is hurting the both of us more than it is helping and I’m not entirely sure it would be beneficial to continue this relationship. Therefore, I do not know if it should continue any further, for the good of both of us.

Sincerely,
Marcie