whatever happens, happens...

[Asylum]

i'm afraid what the future holds for me..... i'm really afraid of love... i supress it... sometimes i run away.... however this time i am faced with a problem my bf and i are taling abou taking a break... i know we've been waiting to see what happens for a long time... i'm scared... i mena i'm not even sure if any of the things to do, are ok... i'm at a loss, and just waiting hoping that whatever happens it is for the best... i pray to God that things work out for the best.. so i'm trying to stay emotionless to this topic.... i know i failed the other ngiht.... but... hey this stuff happens, so here i go supressing emotions for this...

[Marcie]

Suppressing emotion is never a good strategy. They are only going to come back even worse then before.
And what ever happens you can always talk to me, just shoot a PM or E-mail.

[Art_dude]

I'm sorry hun :(

First off, don't suppress your emotions. It's the worst thing you can do to yourself emotionally. Are you saying that you are afraid you've fallen in love with boyfriend, or that you runaway from love in general? If you're feeling this much out of funk, it might be beneficial for you two to take a break. Not all breaks result in break ups: Sometimes two people just need some space to breathe and think before they can be back in a healthy relationship. Look at this as a chance to gather your bearings, and work through those suppressed emotions. Things will work out. ((HUGS)) PM me if you need to talk.

[Asylum]

yes supressing emotions = bad idea.. thanx Marcie, but i think just this bit of a rant helped enough and i'd rather not talk aobut this.. both... the second i normally do.. i usually supress it.. i'm a little afraid of it turnin into a break up... *hugs* i hope things work out...

[Aspiringanonymous]

Yes indeed, whatever happens will happen, and part of the experience of being a creature of habit is the struggle to somehow appreciate uncertainty - and its eventual resultant. Life goes on, for the better or for the worse, and either way, there is something to be gained and something equally lost.

Acknowledge, rather than suppress, and through acknowledgment, resolve to change. The irrational is no simple matter for applying a logical approach, but it can still be worked with to a certain extent. I'm probably getting a little too far ahead though; there is much to be done before one can naturally undergo this transformation.

If suppression is the only viable alternative to breaking down from inner chaos, then I suppose you should do whatever it is that you need to do in the immediate.

I, too, am available if you wish to discuss this further.

It pains me to witness others in such a state. May you find peace of mind soon.