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KChiChi
February 24th, 2010, 03:07 AM
how was it?? seriously, tell me all about it because.... quite embarassing. i'm 14 and i haven't had mine...:whoops:
oh, and do suprise kisses actually work?!?!
:P

(i feel like a wank asking this...

galen
February 24th, 2010, 03:11 AM
I think the feeling is unique to the individual lol. Mine was soft, sweet and warm :D.

Your first kiss is special! So there is no need to jump into it : )

Katrina
February 24th, 2010, 05:30 AM
I would have got my first kiss when I would have been an infant:D

My serious first kiss was when I was 12 and it felt very soothing, warm.

CuriousDestruction
February 24th, 2010, 06:06 PM
my first kiss i was... like, 12 or so. it felt good. like someone my age actually cared about me. at that point in my life i had been severely depressed and it brought me out of that depression. if only for awhile.

cherry_boi
February 24th, 2010, 08:49 PM
lol it was over really quickly, and pretty meaningless actually, had it when i was 13, lol i was soo innocent and naive back then :P

def nothing special

mountainsniffer
February 26th, 2010, 02:47 PM
Age 13, kind of quick, and awkward. Thing is, we kind of did it because we felt we should.

Come to think of it, more or less the entire relationship was like that. :P

Antares
February 26th, 2010, 03:56 PM
Moving to R and D

Art_dude
February 26th, 2010, 07:00 PM
Mine was with a long time friend when I was like 13 or 14 :) We had no idea what we were doing, it was terrible lol but it was sweet and innocent. It wasn't until my next girlfriend that I learned everything. Surprise kisses can work either realllly well or reallllly badly. I remember a spontaneous kiss with my ex when it was snowing outside... it was amazing and very romantic. I also remember trying to surprise kiss a friend I thought liked me. Let's just say she dodged her head, I hit her forehead and we stood in silence for a good five minutes... It can go either way lol :P

Marcie
February 26th, 2010, 09:29 PM
I haven't had one yet lol

Asylum
February 27th, 2010, 01:25 AM
my first kiss was 2 years ago with my current boyfriend at the time, Justin. warm and soft,
don' jump into it,

Nelson
February 27th, 2010, 01:16 PM
My first kiss with a guy = shit, rushed and effin terrible
My first kiss with a chick = shit, rushed and we didnt even make out, it was a peck

>_< I dont even consider the above first kisses

Iamthe dark lord
February 27th, 2010, 06:29 PM
i havent had girlfriend or even a date with a girl let alone a kiss

ErykaInspire.
February 27th, 2010, 06:37 PM
Mine was a drunken mistake :o
I was in a tent with my cousin and two guys (twins) she started making out with one of them, and we were drinking and stuff (first time i'd ever touched alcohol.. and only out of anger. I wanted to get away.)
She urged me into kissing him and well.. it led into a full makeout session where I had no idea what I was doing, and he did.
The next morning I booked it outa the tent and never went to see the guys again.
The sad part is, we had been good friends, too.
Four years later, I now know what i'm doing XD <-- Had to clear that up.

Edit: I never have/will drink again.

Joshrofl
March 2nd, 2010, 08:17 PM
I haven't had a "real" First kiss yet... I had a girlfriend in like 1st grade (Crazy i know) and we did the whole peck kiss thing but i don't count that as a first kiss, and i haven't had a girlfriend in high school yet, I'm a sophomore, so I still have to receive a first kiss myself.

Strength
March 3rd, 2010, 07:23 AM
had mine at 17 (pathetic i know), she caught me by surprise but i enjoyed it :D

Hatsune Miku
March 3rd, 2010, 05:53 PM
Don't worry you're not alone, I never kissed before

OnlyByTheNight.
March 3rd, 2010, 07:02 PM
I was 14 and it was pre-arranged with one of my guy best friends. It didn't go too well as it was his second kiss only so ya, it was all slobbery and yucky. >.<
Lucky we have both improved dramatically at kissing since then, with alot of practise!!! xD

nickw_2013
March 3rd, 2010, 09:40 PM
Mine was in 6th grade I was 13. Now that I think about it, it really wasn't anything special.
As for surprise kisses, it kinda depends on the person, I'm naturally pretty relaxed, so if its not a guy I won't really make a big deal out of it.

Greggy
April 22nd, 2010, 09:46 PM
I was 12. I liked it. It felt innocent, not out of attraction, but out of care for each other. BUT every kiss we had after that never felt the same. I soon broke up with her. :\

Hollywood
April 22nd, 2010, 11:01 PM
I've never been kissed, and my girlfriend lives halfway across the country.

And no, I don't reccomend suprise kisses. It could scare the crap out of your girlfriend/boyfriend and cause you two to break up.

abbiecadabby
April 25th, 2010, 07:26 PM
Oh geez, I had my first kiss a couple days ago.. it was quick. he just lifted up my chin and kissed me. It was cute .

staying_alive
April 25th, 2010, 08:12 PM
how was it?? seriously, tell me all about it because.... quite embarassing. i'm 14 and i haven't had mine...:whoops:
oh, and do suprise kisses actually work?!?!
:P

(i feel like a wank asking this...

Feeling like a wank...that's an interesting way to put it. :D

Anyway, it's not as awesome as it sounds, at least it wasn't for me. I think kissing gets subsequently better as a relationship moves along. Surprise kisses work a lot better when you've reached a comfortable kissing stage. I wouldn't try one on a first kiss in a relationship (especially if never kissed someone). The best kissing experiences i've had were laying down. There's something about two bodies laying on one another that turns me on. I think standing or sitting is awkward, even though that's usually how a first kiss happens.

Trust me, lots of people don't have their first kissing experience 'til late high school or even college. The best advice i can give is not to rush it; when you do, things get awkward and you start worrying about your kissing ability. When two people are ready, it'll happen.

One last comment. Don't be afraid to lead. Lots of guys (like myself) like girls that aren't afraid to take charge. Believe me, guys aren't going to stop you if you start it.

dannyeyes
April 25th, 2010, 08:27 PM
First kiss??
Umm awkward lol
But really cool too

And I think its cute you havent kissed anyone yet
its kinda hott actually :cool:

Lucky5555
April 27th, 2010, 03:31 PM
My first kiss was AMAZING!! my boyfriend drove me home and we went inside. And he knew I had never kissed anyone. And he wanted it to be special. So he walked up. Hugged me. And leaned in. (I kinda just stood there.) and he kissed me. Then we kissed again. And he asked me if thi was ok. And I said. "yes. It is. :)" and we kissed again. Open mouth. It was great. And we made out for a bit. All while he held me close to him. And we hugged for a while. And then I whispered. "I love you." and he said "ditto" and giggled in my ear. And kissed me again. Then he had to go. :) ps sorry. I got caugt up in remembering everything.

LoveMe_HateMe
April 29th, 2010, 09:53 AM
i still remember my first kiss, it was only last year but we'd just been to the cinema and we were walking along the park... it was dark and we were talking but he stopped and pulled me towards him, it shocked me at first and i was as nervous as hell but i soon relaxed and it was really nice and sweet ^_^

but dont worry about not having had your first kiss yet... your time will come :)

OnTheFritz
May 2nd, 2010, 12:12 AM
Well I dont really consider this my first kiss but its the only kiss I have had and it was with my ex-bestfriend we had known eachother since we where babys and we just kissed.We arent friends anymore....
Im hoping to get my first REAL kiss soon as I now have my first real boyfriend

steve1234
May 2nd, 2010, 05:14 AM
I'm 18 and haven't had my first kiss....haven't even flirted before.
Even my 'not so good looking' friends have had their first kiss, which makes me feel really ugly...

Im not sure surprise kisses work.... One of my friends went up to the girl he liked and did it (just a peck on the check)...anyway, she slapped him and reported it to the headteacher, and he was suspended for a day for 'inappropriate behaviour'. That is an extreme case though, and she is part of a feminist group..so she may have overeacted

I tell you where surprise kisses do work though....in the movies and on American teen dramas! :D

Mattasaur94
May 2nd, 2010, 05:38 AM
Are we talking, first hook up, or just soft kisses? ^^
My first peck-kiss, like, meaningfully, was when I was about 5... Behind the bushes at a resort, staying with a couple of families we were friends with. ^^
Got to love pretending to get married, yea? :D

My first hook up,
School holidays, Year 7 on my birthday, once more, camping, same girl I "married" 7 years before hand. ^_^ We're just good friends, but yepp. At night on a hill, somewhere away from everywhere else, was rather cliche, but midnight came, I turned 13 and we were just joking around, wondering who my first kiss of my new age would be, and... Well yepp... One thing led to another...
Was kind of cute, when I think about it...
My friend and I never went out, but we've done alot of things together, it's cute. :3
She moved to the other side of Australia though, which is sad. ): But life moves on and I can still call her. :p

eltomo
May 2nd, 2010, 05:23 PM
warm and soft, with my current gf

Icarus7
August 16th, 2010, 07:43 PM
Feeling like a wank...that's an interesting way to put it. :D

Trust me, lots of people don't have their first kissing experience 'til late high school or even college. The best advice i can give is not to rush it; when you do, things get awkward and you start worrying about your kissing ability. When two people are ready, it'll happen.

One last comment. Don't be afraid to lead. Lots of guys (like myself) like girls that aren't afraid to take charge. Believe me, guys aren't going to stop you if you start it.

I agree totally with this one. I lol in the first part XD

BOBBY HILL
August 16th, 2010, 08:01 PM
i swear to god when i had my first kiss i heard the beatles

Littleman
August 17th, 2010, 12:12 AM
Ive been kiss by a girl once that I didnt know to well, aparently she lost a bet......

15, never kissed someone I actually cared about

AutumnDae
August 17th, 2010, 11:28 AM
My first peck was with a boyfriend of that time. It was sweet at the time I guess, but nothing too amazing.

1_21Guns
August 17th, 2010, 02:08 PM
*loads gun* Autumn i'm kidding :P

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