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Katrina
February 23rd, 2010, 11:27 PM
I sometimes feel I am really fed up by my parents.
OK my Dad pays my fees, let me buy whatever I want etc. But that he always come home terribly drunk disgusts me. He always takes a huge amount of bribe from everyone to do anybody's work. He is one of those guy whom everybody respects(or is afraid of) him for his money and muscle power. Whenever my step-mother(she is my father's 3rd wife) goes to her parent's house (that's what she says, but I suspect she goes with some boy), my Dad brings home some 3-4 girls to our house who please him. I just think this is completely immoral, but I don't have the courage to oppose him.
As for my step-mother she herself is only 23 years old. She is one of those spoilt girls who go with anyone who has money. She doesn't care for me, and never talks with me.
I know that I would be going to a college in 2-3 months, and my father will make sure that I get admission in one of the best colleges(the only thing that he does is that he cares for my studies).
I don't know what I should do, ie should I leave things as it is or should I do anything else?

Noughfur
February 26th, 2010, 05:27 AM
Morality is not up to you to decide. What he does is his own business.
I truly, wholeheartedly believe you should let him do what he wants. He's his own man, he can make his own decisions. If that's what he does to enjoy his life, then so be it. It's his life.

Magus
February 26th, 2010, 05:31 AM
No matter what, the father is the God of the children. As long as he is not afflicting and hindering you then that's fine.

What he does is his wish and will. But be careful and take good care of your father.

vic203140
February 26th, 2010, 05:40 AM
no matter what, the father is the god of the children. As long as he is not afflicting and hindering you then that's fine.

What he does is his wish and will. But be careful and take good care of your father.

are u f***ing for real get a life
where ya get off typing that

i feel 4 u hun best thing well what i reckon is just get to uni and live ya own life

Noughfur
February 26th, 2010, 05:41 AM
are u f***ing for real get a life
where ya get off typing that

i feel 4 u hun best thing well what i reckon is just get to uni and live ya own life

Why must you overreact?

Magus
February 26th, 2010, 05:52 AM
Why must you overreact?

May be she needs to read that again.

Obscene Eyedeas
February 26th, 2010, 08:37 AM
Hun its natural to feel that this is immoral imo it is too but you cannot live your fathers life for him his life is his life after all. You can bring up the subject by maybe writing him a letter or sitting him down just the two of ye and tell him of your concerns but there is not much you can do. Its his life and his choice. I feel for you hun i really do but thats just the way things are