one angry friend...

[lxl]

ok so my close friend (so i thought) is really annoying me
few days ago she blew up on me and totally dissed my parents about how they always want me home early when we hang out... personally i never even though that our hangout time was not enough
anyways i was hurt because i love my parents and she said such harsh things about them... i actually talked to her yesterday that i was upset about how she talked about my parents but she said she was sorry that it made me feel bad but she does not feel sorry for saying it because she believes in her words about hating my parents
so what do i do? im still a bit upset on the inside because for the fact that she truly hates my parents but we are such good friends?

[Marcie]

How do you know she doesn't feel sorry?

[lxl]

How do you know she doesn't feel sorry?

we talked yesterday... i told her that what she said about my parents bothered me
she told me she's sorry that i feel bad but she is not sorry that she hates my parents because thats what she believes

[Marcie]

we talked yesterday... i told her that what she said about my parents bothered me
she told me she's sorry that i feel bad but she is not sorry that she hates my parents because thats what she believes

Oh okay, I'm sorry, I misread that.

Maybe you could talk to her about why, exactly, she feels that way about your parents then address the issues one by one.

[INFERNO]

I'd just let it go. She was angry and if she truly believes in what she said, you won't get a nice, relaxed, civil conversations. Besides, if you're still friends, then nothing wrong if your friend doesn't care for your parents as long as that doesn't impede your friendship.

[Art_dude]

Ditto to what INFERNO said.

As hurtful as it is, she's entitled to her own opinion, and if she's basing whether she likes your parents or not off of a petty thing like a curfew, then you're not gonna get anywhere trying to have a civil and rational conversation with her about it. Tell her that she can think whatever she wants, but if she feels the compulsion to say something again, have the common decency to say it respectfully.

[Inconvenience]

don't let anybody disrespect ur family. and if people do, well, fuck them ;)

[DjDream]

If you really feel strongly about your friends disrespecting your parents then you should stop being friends with that person