must rant!!

[Asylum]

..... so i'm a bit upset at this girl right now, but once i calm down i will seek her to help her... she has lots of cuts that didn't break the skin on her arm, only one broke that was quite shallow. that doesn't bother me... the fact that she is literally going up to people sayin look how cool my arm is. oh my gosh feel it!! leaving her arm wide open for all to see... ad yes she did say the above... i am just like really?!?! what?!?..... huh! and then what she said really bothered me cutting is so cool! meanwhile everyone staring at her.... nad laughing and she's laughing oh you cut yoursefl yup hahahhaa

i'm like arghhhhh wtf?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!? sorry i needed to rant.... it bothers me... . oh so much...

[Marcie]

Ugh, people like that are.. well I really don't like them.. I hate it when people just go and cut them selves for attention! I think that's one of the things I dislike the most. People like that are giving "cutters" a bad stereotype..

[Magus]

That's soooooooo stupid to get themselves. I never done it. If you want attention, then go make your self a name then, do something and excel in it till people goes "wow! How did she do that!! Momy! I wanna be like her" And there, you have your attention.

Or just be yourself, be loved by your parents, by your siblings, and by your bloodlines. Later go to your friends, and in later stages, Woala! You got your self attention and people knows you and feel for you rather than cutting your self.

What else?

[Discomposure]

It is for attention most likely, but what you should try get through to her is how addictive it becomes, and how much worse it will get.
It is pathetic. People like that, I have a "friend" who does allsorts for attention, it's actually quite sad to see them like that, maybe there's a reason she wants attention? Like she doesn't recieve any from home, something like that..

[Asylum]

yea those people are so annoying!!

[Xistrance]

Ummmm no offence, but all cutting is for attention. IF you agree or not, it still doesn't change the fact that it is for attention, subconciously you are screaming out for help, your mind wont talk, so your body shows it. Its fact.

She most probably has more reason to cut than any of us here. Especially because she tells people, instead of whining here, shouldn't alarm bells going off in your head, if what I see you posting on here being "helpful" shouldn't you help her?

[Asylum]

umm i'm sorry but.. i dont' cut for attention... i do it to cope... to actually feel soemthign when my skin would go numb... to stop delusion and hallucinations... u have no idea what i have dealt with and deal iwth.

not to mention why would i go chopping myself up just to get noticed... if i wanted to get noticed why not accel at something like an instrument. then again arent' we all really attention seekers... why do singeers go tour on stage, why do people bake pies to get good attention... however why would anyone want the bad kind... why would anyone purposefully scar... i wouldn't .. hwoever there are people otu there who would do anything for any kind of attention.. i'm not one to go hurting myself just to get pitty and made fun of by others.. personally i dont' really care what others think... howeer yes... i sometimes do.. but thats more of a paranoid thing..


as far as she goes, i have no idea wha she deals with ...so i can't even say if she has a legit reason. even tho cutting is never reasonable but to go around hey look at my cuts aren't thye awesome! hahahhaa that is wrong.. and sick, and i'd love to help her, but its best not to get involved, because she is the type of person who spreads rumors that are untrue and thats all i need from her..

[XxHaViiK]

There are people that cut for attention, and people that cut because they feel the need. It sounds like she is the 1st choice.

[Asylum]

i agree with you Desmond

[BeautifulDisaster]

Not everyone cuts for attention, I know I tried my damn hardest to hide my self harming, still do.
I got bullied for my self harming, and I got abused at home for it.
I don't go showing around my self harm for attention, I self harm for personal reasons, not to get attention.

Magik -
I don't hate these people who crave attention, for them to do something that drastic to themselves just to get attention, they must not been getting it from those who are responsible to provide it (ie; parents.)

These people are in just as much pain as we are, but for different reasons.

Something must have happened for them to act that way, don't you think?

[Asylum]

very true..... but i don't see why they go around making jokes about it showing people to get negative attention... i'm not aying she isnt in less pain.. i just don't undersand and hate the concpet of trying to get attention for it... in such a way.. its jiust hard for me to comprehend, bothers me a bit she thinks its cool when it isn't...

[BeautifulDisaster]

For her to act this way, something must be going very bad for her in her life, and she lashes out in this sort of way to deal with it.

We all deal with things differently, and for her, this is how she deals with things.

[HeroesAndCons]

Ugh i hate those attention whores who think its "cool" real self harmers so it for a reason

[xXdamienXx]

those people really piss me off especially since i just stopped 2 wks ago