View Full Version : did he mean it or is he messing me around ? help
maddii-may
February 21st, 2010, 04:22 PM
okay well basically i have liked this guys for ages now and i went to my mates house about 4 weeks ago i think it was and she invited her cuz round to see us and i really like him hes in the year above me. and we played truth or dare and we got dared to kiss so we did.then when my mate left the room he caried on and we got off like more than 5 timesand he had a gf.but then at her party the following week he told me he broke up with his gf and that he liked me in the same way so we kissed again and we went to the hall and got off again.then we went nack and he got off with some one a year bellow me. next too days i find out that they are going out. when they broke up he told me he liked me again. and i told him i liked him. then he met another one of my mates from the year bellow me. after about 4 days of knowing each other and tell her i liked him she told me she liked him and that they are going out but he sed he still likes me the next day ? i dont no what he is doing does he mean it but i have lost sleep and i cant seem to get to sleep over this what do i do
(btw hes in year 10 im in year 9 and the other two ar in year 8)
thank you for all your help :)
CourageWolf
February 21st, 2010, 04:26 PM
I wouldn't waste your time with him. Obviously I don't know the whole situation but he sounds like he's just using you. If he really liked you why would be keep going for your friends?
maddii-may
February 21st, 2010, 04:29 PM
i dont no i have liked him and have dated him before but a year ago and he said he wouldnt date me again so i dont no but its all complicated and im not too sure what too do coz i really like him ? x
i am just a bit confused abou th ewhole thing x
Kaius
February 22nd, 2010, 01:14 PM
He definitely isnt worth the trouble. Think about it this way, You feel like this because of him, and its hurting you. He's going around doing that with other girls, do you really think he feels the same towards you, or whether its hurting him? He's taking you for a fool, and he knows he can do it because he has your trust. You need to get him out of your life and attempt to move on. However hard that may seem, You need to do the best thing in your own interest to stop you from getting hurt. He sounds extremely immature and quite honestly a player who needs to learn the hard way about his actions. You deserve better.
maddii-may
February 22nd, 2010, 01:25 PM
yeaa i get where your coming from but i cant delete him from my life. i dont think he feels the same way x
Beautiful Obsession
February 22nd, 2010, 05:17 PM
i wudnt waste ur time on him tbh, sounds abit of a man slag who only wants one thing, xx
Gumleaf
February 23rd, 2010, 05:35 AM
as mentioned before by others, its probably not worth your time waiting for or persuing him. he sounds like a 'ladies man' and if you are looking for the type of person who would make a boyfriend rather then a sex partner, then i think you should look elsewhere. you will find a person who suits you, you just have to be patient. hope it all works out for you hun.
Asylum
February 23rd, 2010, 11:35 AM
sounds like he is a playa to me... don't waste your time move on.. there are other fishies in the sea
maddii-may
February 23rd, 2010, 11:36 AM
thankss but alot has happened today aswell to do with him x
maddii-may
February 24th, 2010, 02:50 PM
well last night him and his gf my best mate broke up. now he wont talk too me and im not sure what too doo im really worried that he hates me however i didnt no they had broken up till this moring and i dont no what too do now xx
GoldenSnitch
December 3rd, 2012, 12:47 AM
Don't listen to him
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