need help

[twotall]

well i been j/o for awhile with a friend and we did some stuff then kinda stop. so now we just j/o with each other but lately we havent been talkin as much as we used to and hanging out. do u think it is because what we have been doing or something else

[Rainstorm]

Sometimes, experimenting with friends can lead to your friendship ending. It's a risk you take.

You could try talking about it with him, because there could be something else going on, though.

[Footballkid27]

it could be both. it might start becoming weird and to sexual so you guys might spread apart but also people grow apart anyway as they get older

[CuriousDestruction]

when you experiment with a friend it runs the risk of hurting a friendship. a lot of times it gets really awkward... sorry. give it time and you may get closer again.

[Snow Storm]

Experimenting with friends is really a 50/50 chance.

[Yesterdays Hero]

I think experimenting could make the relationship awkward, then again, it mightn't do anything to the relationship. In the odd chance, it may even make the friendship better. So, I think your friend could be a bit weird-ed out by the whole thing, or the two have you could just have drifted apart. It happens. It's probably a 50/50 chance. So, if you want to clear it all up, I think you should just talk to him about it.

[agentv]

if you relationship revolves around j/o stop for a while

[twotall]

well thats what i have been doing but he aint talking that much so im going to try to hang out with him this weekend

[javs262]

if you guys text or go on facebook, just message him and say something like "hey, dude, we have not hung out in forever and a half, we should get some people and go to a playground" something along those lines. its less awkward if you have more people with you and pretend that stuff never happened, just ask him in a way that you would say it

[aaronboy]

Could be. How about if you just ask him to hang out with you and not wait for him.

[Kaius]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: