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telephonique
February 20th, 2010, 10:18 PM
I have a fairly big crush on a guy at school, and I'm thinking of asking him out. Do guys like that, or do they generally like to make the first move?

cherry_boi
February 20th, 2010, 11:24 PM
umm i don't mind if girls ask me out if i have shown some interest in them

but when they randomly ask me out and i can't even remember their name cuz i've seen them like once before, that kinda gives me a bad impression

but ya...if i've had afew conversations with them and they are a familiar face i don't mind being asked out

telephonique
February 21st, 2010, 12:09 AM
umm i don't mind if girls ask me out if i have shown some interest in them

but when they randomly ask me out and i can't even remember their name cuz i've seen them like once before, that kinda gives me a bad impression

but ya...if i've had afew conversations with them and they are a familiar face i don't mind being asked out

OK :) The guy I like and I have talked quite a bit... he's fairly shy, but sometimes he'll come up to me and say hello, or ask what's up. Sometimes he'll lurk around where I am, but only when I'm alone... and I can** sense the "sexual tension"... if that's even possible.

gbe9494
February 21st, 2010, 02:21 AM
i wouldnt mind if some girl asked me out. as cherry_boi said it would be strange and cause a bad impression if its someone you dont know that much or bearly know.

The Red Devil
February 21st, 2010, 06:22 PM
OK :) The guy I like and I have talked quite a bit... he's fairly shy, but sometimes he'll come up to me and say hello, or ask what's up. Sometimes he'll lurk around where I am, but only when I'm alone... and I can** sense the "sexual tension"... if that's even possible.

That sounds as if he likes you to me, but he is just to nervous to say anything (im the same)

I think you should go ahead and take the iniative, I'm sure he would like that, he is obviously unsure what to do so it would make it a lot easier for both of you.

Hatsune Miku
February 21st, 2010, 06:38 PM
I would love for a girl to ask me out

CourageWolf
February 21st, 2010, 07:17 PM
To me, at least, it really doesn't matter. Most guys only ask girls out because if they waited for girls to ask them out they would wait forever. lol

Nihilus
February 21st, 2010, 07:24 PM
I wouldn't mind being asked out by a girl. In fact I would love it.

Marcie
February 21st, 2010, 07:24 PM
I really don't care whether a girl asks me out or not. If they want to, then go ahead, by all means ask me out lol.

2D
February 21st, 2010, 07:39 PM
Bluntly put, yes.

pageplant77
February 21st, 2010, 09:36 PM
Well I don't know about anyone else, but I like to make the first move

Ceaser
February 21st, 2010, 09:45 PM
i really dont mind

Alfred Pennyworth
February 23rd, 2010, 02:56 AM
for me, it would be great if a girl i liked asked me out, since i'm the nervous, cautious type. I usually panic because i'm afraid of rejection(it's a long story). If you're quite sure that he likes you go ahead. I'd find it a turn on if the girl had the courage to ask me out.

bob skull
February 23rd, 2010, 12:55 PM
i would love if a girl asked me out

overcome.
February 23rd, 2010, 01:39 PM
I don't see why he wouldn't take it as a compliment at least. Even if he doesn't like you in that way, he will, trust me. We're all human after all, we'd all appreciate it. Although it sounds like he likes you though, so good luck with that.

hexane
February 23rd, 2010, 10:16 PM
It's okay with me to be asked out by a girl.

gogo
February 23rd, 2010, 10:27 PM
i like when girls make first move

freshman
February 23rd, 2010, 10:51 PM
i am flattered when a girl makes the first move

soccer8
February 23rd, 2010, 11:29 PM
me generally i like when the girl asks it cause otherwise i will get to nervous and dont say anything

galen
February 24th, 2010, 03:37 AM
Actually guys and girls are very much alike when it comes to things like this. If girls like guys asking them out, you can safely assume that guys like it too.

Art_dude
February 24th, 2010, 01:25 PM
I'm the complete opposite of old-fashioned. IMO it's a real turn on when a girl asks out a guy. It shows that she's confident, knows what she wants, and is not caught up in the stupid gender stereotype crap of today.

Apparitions
February 28th, 2010, 09:41 AM
I have a fairly big crush on a guy at school, and I'm thinking of asking him out. Do guys like that, or do they generally like to make the first move?
Dude, I would love to be asked out by someone.

Lazy Procrastinator
February 28th, 2010, 10:43 AM
Lol, if he is shy and likes being around you then he's probably like me :) Nervous to make the move and fear of rejection like "TheForgotten" said.
He will like it :)

biscuit
February 28th, 2010, 02:19 PM
I have a fairly big crush on a guy at school, and I'm thinking of asking him out. Do guys like that, or do they generally like to make the first move?

I would love it if a girl would ask me out instead of me having to ask them.
It's too much pressure on the guy, because they are almost always suppose to ask a girl out. It's time to share that pressure :P

But seriously, I don't think a guy would care if a girl asked them out.

Evermore
February 28th, 2010, 05:09 PM
It really depends on the guy. Some guys like to do the pursuing and are strongly turned off when a girl asks out. Some would prefer it. If he's a shy person he'd probably appreciate it if you asked him out.

Raptor22
February 28th, 2010, 05:11 PM
If I were you I would work to clue the guy in first to see if he is interested in you. (by flirting, being nice, etc)

Maybe you can bait him to ask you out, if not then you can then make your move.

Joshrofl
March 2nd, 2010, 08:31 PM
I wouldn't mind to be asked out by someone, I would prefer if they found a way to tell me how they feel about me and i can ask them out, but still i wouldn't mind being asked out by a girl.

Nelson
March 4th, 2010, 01:30 PM
I haven't actually been asked by someone, but the feeling when you get even asked slightly, for me, is really nice, uplifting..

blounster2
April 21st, 2010, 10:17 PM
i love being chased personnally

cuarta_internacional
April 21st, 2010, 11:27 PM
Yep. Saves me from feeling all awkward/blushy/nervous too, which is great.

MacMilker
April 21st, 2010, 11:30 PM
I have a fairly big crush on a guy at school, and I'm thinking of asking him out. Do guys like that, or do they generally like to make the first move?


guys ask girls out not the other way around.

MaliciousBunface
April 22nd, 2010, 12:02 AM
guys ask girls out not the other way around.

you can't just say that, its not even true -.-

I don't mind, but I prefer being asked..

Scarface
April 22nd, 2010, 12:46 AM
Yeah man It work both ways. Which ever can conjure up the balls to do it first I guess. Though I play hard to get. Makes me see how ad they want me lol

Hollywood
April 22nd, 2010, 11:03 PM
It dosen't matter to me, all of my ex-girlfriends asked me out. Well, maybe that's why they're my exes. But I doubt it, they were all overobsessed bitches.

pixie1234
April 23rd, 2010, 04:42 PM
just go for it hunnii xxx i would :L

i love the way everyone on here is saying that its time for the girls to ask out the guys now... at my school thats all that happens 'cos we girls know if we dont ask then it will never happen :L xx

UnknownError
April 24th, 2010, 07:06 AM
Im usually the one to ask people out.

But my last girlfriend asked me out.

If he says "maybe, I'll think about it" don't push him. At my school if you say that about 20 people keep pushing you forcing you to give an answer. So do it casually and if he says no just say its fine or whatever.

Deandre
April 24th, 2010, 09:02 AM
Go for it and show him how confident you are! :D

Jess
April 24th, 2010, 11:01 AM
I would rather have a boy ask me out. I am way too shy to do it

Apparitions
April 24th, 2010, 11:22 AM
I would rather have a boy ask me out. I am way too shy to do it
How do you think we feel?! ;)

UnknownError
April 24th, 2010, 11:26 AM
How do you think we feel?! ;)

Exactly. Im nervous, going to ask out my best friend on Monday... :eek:

Sith Lord 13
April 24th, 2010, 06:36 PM
How do you think we feel?! ;)

QFT!

We want to be asked out. In fact, I find it uber hot if she asks me out. Of course that may have something to do with my overwhelming fear of rejection,, but that's besides the point.

Mr. Awesome
April 24th, 2010, 08:22 PM
O god yes, in my opinion anyway, stress of getting the nerve to ask somone out when i was younger, nearly had a heart attack doing it

Sage
April 24th, 2010, 08:44 PM
I've no problem asking a girl out if I want to, though, there's something I find about an assertive woman to be attractive.

dmeek7
April 24th, 2010, 11:07 PM
i think there is nothing wrong with the girl asking the guy out. girls want equal rights and wanted to be treated as an equal to the guy, i say that she takes some of the responsibility to ask the guy out

love_linds
April 25th, 2010, 11:30 AM
i actually asked my boyfriend out.
i think he was glad i did because he would have been to shy to ever do it.

AddiEast
April 25th, 2010, 02:34 PM
omg I would LOVE IT if girls asked out guys
it would be soo much easier
u should def do it and tell all your friends to do it too! :D

deadpie
April 25th, 2010, 02:56 PM
Well I don't, because every girl that's asked me out can't see the fucking red flag I am from an inch away.

dannyeyes
April 26th, 2010, 04:34 PM
Guys LOVE it!
Gives us a chance to reject YOU for a change!
(effen bitches...)


lol jk jk

aussie_chub
April 27th, 2010, 08:21 AM
o love it every relationship ive had has started that way and thats about 6 or seven there was this one that wasnt for ver long but we still kinda clicked and yeah i absolutely love it

Hyiirocks
April 29th, 2010, 03:47 PM
Most guys dont mind but some guys like to make the first move, i like being asked out it usually mmakes it easier but some times i prefer asking people out so it depends,

ShatteredWings
April 29th, 2010, 04:28 PM
i'd rather be asked out.. too shy to approach anyone

SecretBrotherNeal
April 30th, 2010, 12:41 AM
All i know is i love being asked out by girls!