i'm thier last chance

[cody2010]

this may be the wrong place to post this. move it if it is.
ok. so. my family, well my mom and dad have been through so much crap with my two older brothers and older sister. for example my oldest brother married an old woman who is 2 years older than my 52 year old mom, my other brother isn't married but lives with a woman, had a baby with her (when she already had 2 other children from 2 other men) and both my brother and his woman are into doing/selling/buying/making cocain,meth,and pot. my sister isn't as bad as my brothers, (and i don't even think this is a bad thing but my mom does) she is living with her bf of about 2 years. and he happeneds to be black. my mom thinks its wrong, i don't, but it has made her cry a lot. anyway my point in all that is all my siblings have disapointed my parents in some shape or form. so i feel like i'm thier last hope for a normal kid. i'm bi and if i were to tell them, they would probably kick me out of the house or something. i dread the day that i come out to them. they will be disappointed in me, and i'll feel horrible. how do i do this without letting them down??

[Kinetic]

you jus gotta approach this the right way, you gotta go to them when the time is right, like the timing has to be perfect, then you gotta go to them and jus sit them down and just tell them... i havn't even told my parents but still, i plan to do it before i move out :P but, i think they already know hehe

[Hatsune Miku]

I think they'll be okay with it. Being Bi is normal, and its alot more normal then selling/making/buying crack, meth and pot. You just gotta tell it to them straight. You're Bi and they have to accept it.

[Jacob1993]

I think you should just tell them when you feel the time is right. I feel that if telling them you are Bi is the worst thing you do, its nothing compared to the other things you wrote about.
I can understand how you feel somewhat-Im scared to death to come out to my parents. I feel they would not understand me being Bi and probably would disown me. :(

[cherry_boi]

as much as it's probly killing you having to withhold that information......i would say keep holding onto it for a little while yet, your parents are clearly under alot of stress and i doubt they'd be able to react rationally, when you are stressed/upset even the littlest thing seems like a huge deal

so i would wait and tell them when you are older, perhaps ready to move out or after your siblings get their life together

i think at this point in time it would just put more stress on ur parents and their reactions would not be beneficial to you or your family

as much as it sux to not be able to have ur sexuality out in the open i say hang in there and wait for a more appropriate time down the road

take the time in between to really become comfortable with yourself in your sexuality, as this will help a great deal when informing others-- if you are able to be secure, confident and understanding of yourself

best of luck! :)