straight in public?

[Kinetic]

when im with my boyfriend i don't feel comfortable holding his hand in public, or like doing much anything in public.. like.. if he says gimme a kiss then ill jus give him a quick peck and call it good. not only because of homophobes but like we only go to the popular places and i can't go anywhere without someone saying "HAI BOBBY!!!!" or something crazy. and im somewhat out too, like i don't really go around telling people but if people ask ill say yeah im bi

NYWAYS! is it bad that i feel unconfortable in public with my boyfriend?

[Charizard8]

Why are you uncomfortable being with him? If you love him, you shouldnt be afraid to show it. You are unafraid to tell us on here this, so its no different out there. Who cares what others think as long as you two are happy together

[Kinetic]

see in my mind thats how it is because i love him sooo much but like... i jus get so nervous for some reason... nd i jus cant

[Baudelaire]

no um, charizard, it isnt. here there are countless people who are open about sexuality and wont judge him, people are capable of hiding it you know. its totally natural to be uncomfortable, i would be too, but as long as you both love eachother, it should be ok.

[Lifeguard18]

to me, it looks like your afraid of someone seeing and you dont want them to. i want to say be happy with your bf, if you love him that much, you wont care what people say or think.

[war-fougt-in-a-boy]

yup im not gay at all but lik i said if u lov him then let it be if i knew i would want to see yaall together in public plus ill fight any one who makes fun of u u dont make of them for likimin girl lol im new here plus im awake so earlly im tipsy hahaha lol r u black

[Mr. Smithers]

It's not bad. But if you love him, why don't you show it? Especially if it's not because of how other people will think.

[Zero Beat]

when im with my boyfriend i don't feel comfortable holding his hand in public, or like doing much anything in public.. like.. if he says gimme a kiss then ill jus give him a quick peck and call it good. not only because of homophobes but like we only go to the popular places and i can't go anywhere without someone saying "HAI BOBBY!!!!" or something crazy. and im somewhat out too, like i don't really go around telling people but if people ask ill say yeah im bi

NYWAYS! is it bad that i feel unconfortable in public with my boyfriend?

Bobby fuck em, your cute, ya bf is hot (:)) Stuff them. Its not bad you do, but you shouldnt need to hide it. If i was the guy picking on ya, id be shit scared of ya bf (side note) :) Screw them

[confusedboy]

Maybe just try doin a lil more in public with him. Just take baby steps for yourself. One time hold hands, the next hug, the next kiss, etc.

Just a thought since u do really love him :)

[Kinetic]

ya kno, funny thing is we broke up like as soon as i was reading these, karma's a bitch o.o

[war-fougt-in-a-boy]

maybes lik deep down u dont want to case any atteion to both of u i liv in teaxas so not many people lettin others kno there gay or bi exect girls
ny and i could understand
that becus i woulod fell the same way lik i would want any one talkin to each other bout me r laughin at us r makin faces wat eve the usuall but jus break free from tha if he wants lov in public then jus giv it to him then look at every one afterwards tha would be a tight statement lol

[war-fougt-in-a-boy]

wwow im late hahahahahahahaha this is so crazy my cell wwas actin up soory dang well now its time to search for some one new

[TheFame]

Well ofcorse thats normal. Im embarrassed to be with my mother in public. But if someone ask my who im with i say " Im with my mommy!". Uasually when you tell someone what you are doing, it makes you feel confident. So next time try holding his hand, and saying your with your boyfriend if somebody asks. Say it with confidence, and im sure you will be fine :) After all, one day or another your going to have to be unembarrassed with him, might aswell make that this week :)

[CuriousDestruction]

i understand what you are going through. a lot of kids don't like to show affection towards their partners in public. even straight kids. it's not that you don't like him, it's just awkward. it's okay if you don't but it could hurt your relationship with your bf. i suggest you just push past the awkwardness and be with your bf.

[Kinetic]

hehe im done with him.... uhh will a mod please delete this thread. its pissing me off >.<

[war-fougt-in-a-boy]

lol ur so funny

[manlymadness]

Talk about it t your boyfriend and reason with him or goto a place where you know most of your friend wont go that way you can!!

[Clayburn Chic]

Its normal to feel awkward in public, because your bi,you feel different

[Ender]

I'm the same way, when I had one, my boyfriend and I never did anything in public, we just acted like best friends, and we still do. Have you tried talking with him about this, and letting him know that you are uncomfortable with publicly displaying your emotions, and that you would prefer it stay private? If he loves you he will understand.

Hope I Helped

--Trae

[Sheilamarie]

i think ur scared 2 show people ur gay

[BuryYourFlame]

OP requested lock. In future, just report the thread if you want it to be locked instead of just posting that you want it locked.

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