Losing Our Virginity

[tak011]

Hey there. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months now. She is 16, and I will be in a month or two.

We got talking, and decided that we want to lose our virginity to each other. My family were all going to be out tomorrow, but now my dad is staying home. This was the perfect opportunity for us, and we both still really want to do it.

Can anyone suggest anything we can do? Bearing in mind my room doesn't have a lock.

Cheers.

[nick]

Wait a bit longer. Its too embarassing all round to get caught and you wouldnt feel relaxed at that thought.

[Mr. Smithers]

I would advise you both to not. Really think about it. You are both young people.

I can't give you "tips", but if you do decide to do it, make sure you use protection.

However, I highly recommend you think twice about this.

[tak011]

We have thought long and hard about this, and been sensible about it. We're not doing it at all without a condom. We love each other deeply and feel comfortable enough to talk about this.

With the complication now, I would think that we won't do it, but just in case we do, is there anywhere we could go? I'm just being practical here, just in case XD

[Malcolm Tucker]

We have thought long and hard about this, and been sensible about it. We're not doing it at all without a condom. We love each other deeply and feel comfortable enough to talk about this.

With the complication now, I would think that we won't do it, but just in case we do, is there anywhere we could go? I'm just being practical here, just in case XD

Look, if your sensible enough to make sure you have a condom, you should be sensible to realize how silly it would be to do it with your father there. I would wait. Wait until you're completely alone, and when it's the right time, you will know. You both will. Be patient and you will see that no matter how long you both wait, it will be worth it, but only if you do it at an appropriate time. So I don't think this desperation of "is there anywhere else we can go" will just result in your first time being so much less magical than it should be. So wait and it'll be so much better than it would be if you rushed into it :)

[Giles]

I'm not going to say anything about using protection or waiting for the 'right moment', because it seems that you and your girlfriend are sensible with regards to that.

I would definitely wait until you are totally alone, being walked in on is never good - being walked in on during your first time must be terribly embarrassing.

[Watchfulness]

Restrain from sexual intercourse before marriage.

[Giles]

Restrain from sexual intercourse before marriage.

Why?

Religion or just 'good' morals?

[tak011]

Cheers for the advice guys. We decided to wait, because it was just the sheer excitement that made us think that this was our ONLY opportunity. Thanks again.

[Impact13]

Despite what people say you should make this huge decision asking these questions:

Do you love her?
Does she love you?
Do you have 1!!! doubt in your mind about this?
How do you think your relationship will change after this?

Truly think about this; it could quiet possibly effect the rest of your life. As for my opinion i dont think you should do it right now; im not telling you to wait until you married just wait until you truly know each other;7 months is not long enough to know everything about a person. Now for your privacy i would agree with JustNick


Good luck my friend! :)
Eastside213

[CuriousDestruction]

I think if your dad will be home you should wait. like nick said, if you get caught it could be really embarrassing. the only other advice i offer you is to use protection.