Showers at school

[please help me 69]

hey,

i do rowing and the other day the year 12 boys came on one of our days and they showered naked. Now i want to make it clear that i dont get attracted by it and i dont care if people do it. Anyways after that day more and more boys in our grade (grade 10) are starting to shower naked. I've kinda wanted to do it too but i am 1. not that happy about my flaccid dick size and 2. im worried i'll get a boner, not from the sight of other boys naked but more from me being naked in that environment, like around other people. Is there any advice you could give me.
Thanks

[Mr. Smithers]

If you don't feel comfortable showering naked, don't.

Especially if you don't have to.

It's totally normal to be nervous in situations like that.

If you want to get over it, I would just stare at the floor. Pretend that you are the only person in the shower room. Take a shower, and get out.

Like I said, it's very normal for you to feel the way you do. Don't worrry.

[nick]

My advice would be to just go ahead and try it. After the first couple of times it will just be routine and you wont think anything of it. I dont get boners in the showers even though I'm gay because to me its just not a sexual situation.

[eggs2006]

I thought I would get a boner in that situation, but didn't. There's something about being naked that makes my dick contract instead of expand. I wish I would at least had a semi so I looked bigger. I think some of the other guys who look big in the showers must be having semi erections, don't you?

[Giles]

Nick is right, if you give it a try then you'll get used to it.
Although it's not a particularly a sexual situation it's understandable that you may get a boner, mainly because it's not a situation that most teens have been in before. Just try it and see what happens.

[ekul6159]

Nick is correct! Just try it out and see what happens. If you don't like it, don't, and if everything works out, do.

[justin26]

we have to shower after basketball preactice...and its not that bad...no body judges u cuz they dont really care

[pageplant77]

I agree with nick. Think of it as going on a roller coaster, the first time will be weird because it's a new experience, but the more you do it it becomes more routine and you get used to it.

[Kitty Purry]

I would say just try it, and see what you think of it, like Nick said it will get easier, each time you do it. But if you don't wanna do it then don't, so just think about what you wanna do :P.

[RadioPlayer]

Just do it. It dosnt matter if you get a boner. It dosnt matter if you have a small flacid size. Just shower like you would normally.

[MichaelAdams1993]

If you don't think about whats happening to your body then nothing tends to happen. Most guys will talk or w/e in the shower with each other. join in a convo and forget everything else. It'll be over before you know it!

[melara]

you dont have to do it its not mandatory but still try it once you do it a couple times you will get used to it and dont worry bout getting a boner as many guys get them whilst showering together so you wont be the only one. good luck

[randomlyonhere]

i would try it, if you dont like dont do it anymore, simple as that

[TylerR]

just do it, when you get it over with you will know how you feel about it. If it doesn't work out you don't have to do it but you can at least know what it is like. For me it wasn't a big deal and boners are harder to get then you think especially if you r nervous. Good luck! It will be fine.

[sooocrazzzy]

just think of an old wrickley man :P

[Texasdude3241]

Just go ahead and shower I'm kinda small and nobody has said anything about that so don't worry.

[luconfu]

Just do it, just focus on showering and not the people around you and then it will become natural.

[TommoW]

I used to be very embarassed myself i would never be naked around family or people i would go into a cubicle, the toilet to pee etc etc.

2yrs ago I needed a circumcision dad came with me, i was checked out by a few doctors and they had to touch me etc, since then im not bothered, i will walk naked from my bedroom to the bathroom, get changed in the locker rooms, pee at the urinals and shower naked after swimming.

I now love being naked, but each to our own some like it some don`t.

[joestephan]

don;t force it on yourself if you feeli it will cause something you will regret, if you want to go ahead, and if you do get a boner, tell them what you said aboce