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Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 01:28 PM
Do you have a kid? If so, how old were you when you had a kid? I hhave a son who was born when I was 13.

littlerascal
February 18th, 2010, 01:36 PM
^^^Exactly why little kids shouldn't have sex...Babies shouldn't have babies of their own....

Hatsune Miku
February 18th, 2010, 01:53 PM
Yeah, 2 daughters.

Kidding, I have none

Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 03:14 PM
I feel kinda left out, lol, Im the only 1 so far to vote yes

Malcolm Tucker
February 18th, 2010, 03:34 PM
I have none to date, but am adopting three as soon as I can :) Have their names picked out and all ^^

Marcie
February 18th, 2010, 03:38 PM
No kids here.

Angel Protector
February 18th, 2010, 04:02 PM
You knocked up some chick... at 13? Are you fucking kidding me? I'm VERY reluctant to believe that.

If that is by any chance true, then that's extremely pathetic even by my standards.

But to answer your question no, I do not. I don't think very many on a teenage forum will honestly be able to answer yes to your question (but that's a good thing.)

I was pregnant once, but I miscarried.

chrisB463
February 18th, 2010, 04:08 PM
Dont worry danny your not alone, i also have a kid which was born when i was 13 too.

Angel Protector
February 18th, 2010, 04:10 PM
...Good God, what the hell is this world coming to??

Hatsune Miku
February 18th, 2010, 04:14 PM
I don't think very many on a teenage forum will honestly be able to answer yes to your question

You are so wrong on so many levels

Angel Protector
February 18th, 2010, 04:15 PM
You are so wrong on so many levels

Oh.

Well, here's just hoping that at least some of them have at least finished puberty already.

Malcolm Tucker
February 18th, 2010, 04:18 PM
You knocked up some chick... at 13? Are you fucking kidding me? I'm VERY reluctant to believe that.

If that is by any chance true, then that's extremely pathetic even by my standards.

But to answer your question no, I do not. I don't think very many on a teenage forum will honestly be able to answer yes to your question (but that's a good thing.)

I was pregnant once, but I miscarried.

...Good God, what the hell is this world coming to??

Excuse me, try and have some respect please! Just because it's not acceptable to you does not mean you get to push your views on anyone. You do not get to judge and berate others just because they got someone pregnant at an age which you may perceive to be young. If someone is happy then it shouldn't matter, should it? No it shouldn't...Don't derail this thread and turn it into an argument (I don't mean to either but needs must...sorry mods)..

Inconvenience
February 18th, 2010, 04:19 PM
i love kids, but not ready to have my own. i'd rather have a lil bro considering that i have no siblings

Angel Protector
February 18th, 2010, 04:21 PM
Excuse me, try and have some respect please! Just because it's not acceptable to you does not mean you get to push your views on anyone. You do not get to judge and berate others just because they got someone pregnant at an age which you may perceive to be young. If someone is happy then it shouldn't matter, should it? No it shouldn't...

I'm sorry... I just find it so shocking, people having babies so young (and that IS awfully young)!

At 13 sex was about the furthest thing from my mind. I hadn't even gotten my period or had my first kiss yet... and it would another 4 years before I would even meet my first boyfriend.

I'm sorry. I don't mean to cause any harm.

littlerascal
February 18th, 2010, 04:22 PM
Excuse me, try and have some respect please! Just because it's not acceptable to you does not mean you get to push your views on anyone. You do not get to judge and berate others just because they got someone pregnant at an age which you may perceive to be young. If someone is happy then it shouldn't matter, should it? No it shouldn't...

They shouldn't exactly be too happy though. I don't know of a single 13 year old who can financially, emotionally, and physically support a baby of their own. A lot of people in their 20s can't even support a baby let alone a kid...teens shouldn't be able to have sex...it usually doesn't turn out to be worth it. Kids can never see the consequences for their actions. Now he's ended up with another human being that depends on him for survival.

Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 04:24 PM
I just wanna know who else has kids, I really dont want to see comments on the topic, K? It hasnt exactly been a walk in the park for me to care for a child, but I was able to do it, and my son is doing very well. Please do not make any negative comments on 13 year olds being able to care for children.

DoveGreySands
February 18th, 2010, 05:12 PM
Man, a kid at 13. That must be really hard. Safe sex is the most important thing to me, and there you are with a child. I'm 18, no kids, don't really want any till i've enjoyed as much of life as possible, proffessionaly and recreational

Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 05:17 PM
It was hard at first, but now that he is 2, things are a lot easier. Im single, so it kinda sux, I gotta care for him by myself. The mother doesnt help for a reason, but I dont want to tell ppl y.

DoveGreySands
February 18th, 2010, 05:25 PM
It was hard at first, but now that he is 2, things are a lot easier. Im single, so it kinda sux, I gotta care for him by myself. The mother doesnt help for a reason, but I dont want to tell ppl y.

Well I respect you for doing that, it's normally the other way around if that sort of thing happens.

cherry_boi
February 18th, 2010, 06:20 PM
^^^Exactly why little kids shouldn't have sex...Babies shouldn't have babies of their own....

this^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

and no i do not have a kid nor do i plan to have one anytime soon wanna be at least 28 before i have my first, possibly older....there are too many things i wana do with my life before i have the responsibility of caring for a child

Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 06:26 PM
thanks Amanda

Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 07:16 PM
Bad news, my son has gotten into an accident on the playground. One of the kids pushed him off the slide and he fell and got a broken arm and a few broken ribs. Hes in the hospital rite now. Im spending the nite with him, and I might need a little comfort. I dont know what I'd do with out him. It was so scary though, all I could do was stand there and watch my baby fall. It was a horrifying sight forme, I doont knoew wat id do with out him . :'(

Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 07:27 PM
Im sorry if I am posting too much or anything, I just dont know what to do, I am so scared. I really need somebody to hold rite now, :(

Kaius
February 18th, 2010, 08:14 PM
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=66711

You dont have a kid, You said yourself in your own thread. Then contradicted yourself in further posts.

Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 08:34 PM
desolution, if you had read farther down in that post. That was a post for sum1 else. Im really scared and worried, if you dont care, then pls leave me be

Kaius
February 18th, 2010, 08:36 PM
:/ I did read further down. It seems to me, if it was for a friend you would have stated that in the first post, along with the fact you already had a child. You made it sound like it was you, then tried to turn it around. Im sorry if it does turn out to be true, but i dont see any full proof of it.

I have everything I could possibly want in my life, a talent, friends, losing virginity, popularity, but the only thing that I could want is a child. I want to have a kid so badly. It would make me so happy. I would love having a son to call my own, one that I could love and care for. Is there any options for getting a child at my age, besides sex? If this is located in the wrong place, Im sorry.

Dannybre
February 18th, 2010, 08:38 PM
ok, i really dont want to fight about this, sorry. I have more important things on my plate right now.

Harley Quinn
February 18th, 2010, 08:43 PM
ok, i really dont want to fight about this, sorry. I have more important things on my plate right now.

If it really is your friend, go back and state that in the post. Then we wouldn't get confused now would we. I don't believe this but each to there own I guess.

iceyfresh
February 19th, 2010, 01:32 AM
I had I kid when I was 13 but it was on vancation she lives in a different state when I found yout I deleted my myspace, email, and changed my number so u don't know what's up now.

littlerascal
February 19th, 2010, 10:33 AM
I had I kid when I was 13 but it was on vancation she lives in a different state when I found yout I deleted my myspace, email, and changed my number so u don't know what's up now.

Way to take responsibility for your actions, champ!

Dannybre
February 19th, 2010, 12:47 PM
Okay, good news, the doctors said my son will be fine. I wont be on as often anymore until hes recovered

Giles
February 19th, 2010, 01:19 PM
I don't mean to be offensive or create an argument.
But.
I don't believe anything you say, the whole fiasco with the other thread has just convinced me that you're talking a load of shit.

Charizard8
February 19th, 2010, 01:59 PM
Dudes, cmon, I mean, the guy has a hurt son and you are gonna treat him this way? Think, what does he have to gain from lying? Even if you guys dont believe him, at leas be nice. This is a site where people come for support, not to given any labels. I dont got no kids, and Im glad that I dont, it would be too much too handle.

Kaius
February 19th, 2010, 02:17 PM
:rolleyes: Lol, Charizard you made a post a few weeks ago about having a son?

Charizard8
February 19th, 2010, 02:35 PM
Yeah, about that, after seeing you guys's answers, I got em tested. Turns out he aint my son, that really messed up. It turns out the girl was a sl*t. I had to give custody to the legal father. I kinda miss him though, but Im good now. lol. Sorry for going off topic

Giles
February 20th, 2010, 12:04 AM
Dudes, cmon, I mean, the guy has a hurt son and you are gonna treat him this way? Think, what does he have to gain from lying? Even if you guys dont believe him, at leas be nice. This is a site where people come for support, not to given any labels. I dont got no kids, and Im glad that I dont, it would be too much too handle.

:rolleyes: Lol, Charizard you made a post a few weeks ago about having a son?

Yeah, about that, after seeing you guys's answers, I got em tested. Turns out he aint my son, that really messed up. It turns out the girl was a sl*t. I had to give custody to the legal father. I kinda miss him though, but Im good now. lol. Sorry for going off topic

That's what I mean. It's all just a bit fuck about, somebody has a child then they don't. Then they're posting for friends. I just think it's all a load of shit.

Edit: Looking at the date of your last post in your thread that got locked exactly a week ago. Is it even possible to get a paternity test and results back within a week for the general public?

Commander Thor
February 20th, 2010, 02:26 AM
Edit: Looking at the date of your last post in your thread that got locked exactly a week ago. Is it even possible to get a paternity test and results back within a week for the general public?

Yes.
It generally takes about 5 days to get the results back, but it can take anywhere from 3-10 business days.

Watta Tem
February 20th, 2010, 03:17 AM
none, maybe someday when im older. :D

CuriousDestruction
February 20th, 2010, 03:50 AM
no kid, someday maybe.

Giles
February 20th, 2010, 09:59 AM
Yes.
It generally takes about 5 days to get the results back, but it can take anywhere from 3-10 business days.

Ok, never mind then.

DoveGreySands
February 20th, 2010, 10:49 AM
Ok, never mind then.

To be fair ben, i kinda agree with you, he said he 'got over it'. In two days?!? There is a lot of posts on here which seem so untrue, several of mine could be seen that way, but for the sake of them actually being true I go along with them :)

MacMilker
February 20th, 2010, 10:59 AM
yeah uhh correct me if im wrong but i think this is kind of...well not kind of. i think this is a lie. i think you really want a son or something so badly your lieing about it. cuz it seems like bullshit

Impact13
February 20th, 2010, 02:58 PM
no i dont have a kid nor do i plan to have one; ive seen first hand how destructive teen pregnancy can actually get; i plan to have children at approximately 24-25 and no earlier with no exceptions. ! lol

Giles
February 20th, 2010, 02:59 PM
Yeah. I'm going to apologise here, true I think it's a load of bullshit - but it's totally going against the topic of the thread. I didn't meant to offend anyone.

Jenna.
February 20th, 2010, 09:50 PM
Hell no. And hopefully I never will. I hate kids. >.<

Suicune
February 20th, 2010, 10:15 PM
Hell no. And hopefully I never will. I hate kids. >.<

Well you were one once. O_o Don't be hatin' lol

But anyway, no I don't have children yet. Although I do want a son or a daughter once I'm older and married.

Jenna.
February 20th, 2010, 10:17 PM
Well you were one once. O_o Don't be hatin' lol

But anyway, no I don't have children yet. Although I do want a son or a daughter once I'm older and married.

Yeah I know lol I just don't like them because a lot of the kids I've had to deal with are spoiled and annoying and I just don't want any. :whoops: /:

Suicune
February 20th, 2010, 10:22 PM
Yeah I know lol I just don't like them because a lot of the kids I've had to deal with are spoiled and annoying and I just don't want any. :whoops: /:

Lol I can totally see your point. I'm only 13 and deal with children like that WAY too much.

Dannybre
February 21st, 2010, 03:53 PM
Honestly, it is hard, but it can fun at times. Im not suggesting that any of you guys have kids at your age. I look back and I am shocked at how young I was when my son was born. It was hard for me, to care for him, luckily I had my parents to help me, but when I wasnt changing the diapers, or feeding him, he was kinda fun to play with. I think that having a child messed me up a bit though, but not very much. Dont have sex! If you do, use protection!

BeautifulDisaster
February 21st, 2010, 10:58 PM
I love kids, my cousins who are 2 and 5 years old make it shine on a rainy day(emotionally speaking.)

I'd love to have children one day, but I don't have one right now.

My sister, however, is pregnant, I'm not happy about that at all since she's a narcissistic & I am scared for the baby.

But, I have lots of great times with my cousins. They're quite attached to me, which is cool, I don't mind at all. :)

alex95
February 27th, 2010, 11:43 PM
You knocked up some chick... at 13? Are you fucking kidding me? I'm VERY reluctant to believe that.

If that is by any chance true, then that's extremely pathetic even by my standards.

But to answer your question no, I do not. I don't think very many on a teenage forum will honestly be able to answer yes to your question (but that's a good thing.)

I was pregnant once, but I miscarried.

actaully this happens alot especially in uk but alot of the people around me lost there virginity when they was 13 and 12 for instance one of my friends are 15 and every girl he fucks his little brother gets to fuck them too btw his little brother is 10 and this is no joke...

Justwondering
February 27th, 2010, 11:50 PM
No, and I never will have any. Dannybre, do you actually have a kid? at 15?.. How do you support him/her.

foreverjd14
February 28th, 2010, 12:24 AM
im only 16 and happily a virgin i don't plan on having a kid anytime soon

badash
February 28th, 2010, 12:37 AM
Nope not me. Hellllll naw

My mom was pregnant with me when she was 16. Screwed her whole life up. she dropped out of highschool and to this day is unemployed

cheetopuff
February 28th, 2010, 03:47 AM
i dont have and dont plan on having one till married

Magus
February 28th, 2010, 03:55 AM
I have 15 Kids, from 4 wives. Yeah, arranged marriage when I was 8 << Sarcasm

Any way, no I don't have.

SimplyTom
February 28th, 2010, 04:35 AM
I have 15 Kids, from 4 wives. Yeah, arranged marriage when I was 8 << Sarcasm

Any way, no I don't have.

y are u been sarcastic he's asking a question not for people to be sarcastic about it.

And to answer your question no i dont

Magus
February 28th, 2010, 04:41 AM
y are u been sarcastic he's asking a question not for people to be sarcastic about it.

And to answer your question no i dont

He asked a question, I answered, nuff said.

Dannybre
February 28th, 2010, 11:53 AM
He asked a question, I answered, nuff said.

I can hear you guys talking about me lol

josh93
February 28th, 2010, 12:13 PM
No i dont have a kid yet.