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JRM96
February 18th, 2010, 01:37 AM
there is this girl i went out with for about 5 months. but then we broke up and just became friends. but i stopped liking her. now iam really liking her again but i dont know if i should ask her out again. can anyone give me some advice as for what i should do?:what:

pkid
February 18th, 2010, 01:40 AM
hahaha i did this to two girls basically the same time..like one girl then the second girl, then the first girl, then the second girl lol..my advice is to do what you want to get experience...only if you think shes interested in you though

iceyfresh
February 18th, 2010, 01:42 AM
First this should be in relationship and dating not puberty 101, second if you really like her you should. If you are worried about her awnser find out if she likes your or not have a friend ask her. No Worry's and god lck

JRM96
February 18th, 2010, 01:47 AM
sorry i didnt even know how to make one of these anyways. but thanks though :cool:

The Batman
February 18th, 2010, 02:02 AM
P101 :arrow: relationships

JRM96
February 18th, 2010, 02:03 AM
thank you for moving it to the right place

2D
February 18th, 2010, 12:45 PM
No. Simple as that really. Getting back with ex's usually makes things worse.

Marcie
February 18th, 2010, 03:12 PM
I think it kinda depends on why you guys broke up in the first place..

JRM96
February 18th, 2010, 04:48 PM
we broke up because her best friend was running it. her best friend was telling us what to do and bossing us around. also i couldnt talk to her much in person because she had all different classes so i only saw her at lunch and before i got picked up to go back home.

Marcie
February 18th, 2010, 04:50 PM
we broke up because her best friend was running it. her best friend was telling us what to do and bossing us around. also i couldnt talk to her much in person because she had all different classes so i only saw her at lunch and before i got picked up to go back home.

Do you think her best friend would do the same thing again?
Do you see her more than you did last time?
Or is the situation basically the same?

JRM96
February 18th, 2010, 06:24 PM
Do you think her best friend would do the same thing again?
Do you see her more than you did last time?
Or is the situation basically the same?

we see each other all the time! and she isnt friends with that girl who ruined it. so no there isnt anything the same

cherry_boi
February 18th, 2010, 06:35 PM
umm if this is a relatively new feeling then i would wait awhile before u take the risk of getting back together only to realize this was a passing phase

if ur certain ur feelings are genuine and sincere then i wud start pouring on the charm and flirting with her, she'll probly pick up on that and then u can judge whether or not she's into you like that

tho if she backs off and things get awkward u'll have to be honest and talk to her...just tell her that ur into her again and want to get back together and respect whatever her decision is

best of luck

JRM96
February 18th, 2010, 09:33 PM
thats alot of help! thank you so much! :cool:

Cats In Space
February 18th, 2010, 09:55 PM
No. Dating your ex is pathetic IMO. If you end it, you end it.

Marcie
February 18th, 2010, 11:37 PM
we see each other all the time! and she isnt friends with that girl who ruined it. so no there isnt anything the same

Well than I think that if you guys just broke up for that reason then I don't think there would be a problem if you two got back together.

galen
February 18th, 2010, 11:46 PM
Well than I think that if you guys just broke up for that reason then I don't think there would be a problem if you two got back together.

Sounds promising :) Hope things work out for you

JRM96
February 19th, 2010, 07:01 AM
thank you. but i just found out i might be moving extrmely far away soon. i dont think that going out with her for like a few weeks or whatever would be fair... that would be mean for me to do that to her.

Marcie
February 20th, 2010, 04:58 PM
thank you. but i just found out i might be moving extrmely far away soon. i dont think that going out with her for like a few weeks or whatever would be fair... that would be mean for me to do that to her.

Aww, I'm sorry, that sucks..

JRM96
February 23rd, 2010, 04:01 PM
well thanks. but iam moving for sure and i dont want to go out with her since iam... believe me we talked about it and it is a no. she still wants to but i dont.

Marcie
February 23rd, 2010, 04:08 PM
well thanks. but iam moving for sure and i dont want to go out with her since iam... believe me we talked about it and it is a no. she still wants to but i dont.

Good for you, I think that's the honorable thing to do :-)

Tommie
February 23rd, 2010, 08:55 PM
naa shutup all haters:L
I know plenty of people who get back with their ex's.
Not saying you shud just ask her out, make sure she likes you with alot of talking and flirting, just generally spending time with her. then pop the question when your ready.

Marcie
February 24th, 2010, 10:06 AM
naa shutup all haters:L
I know plenty of people who get back with their ex's.
Not saying you shud just ask her out, make sure she likes you with alot of talking and flirting, just generally spending time with her. then pop the question when your ready.

Did you read at all what he had just said?