I just can't get over this

[Hatsune Miku]

It's already been about 2 weeks since my girlfriend broke up with me and I still can't get over it. I keep telling myself to suck it up and be a man. but I keep thinking about all the fun we've had in the past 10 months. Everything we've been through, and it overwhelms me. She was the only one who actually understood me. I also keep thinking that nobody else will ever love me. Im weird, horrible at every sport, once they see over a years worth scars on my arm I will have to tell them the truth, and that will pretty much make whoever im with break up with me. What should I do? I need to get this whole breakup off my mind. Its eating away at me, I can't bear it anymore. I know I sound like a total pussy, maybe I am, but there's alot of background stuff to this that I don't feel like typing because its extremely long.

[Mr. Smithers]

I'm pretty sure that you will eventually get over her. It's normal for you to still be upset about the breakup. But you will soon see that it's not worth being upset.

Even though you say you won't find someone else that will love you, you will. Might be when you get older, might not be.

Some people understand, and accept the reason why people used to cut, since you asked that you are afraid that your scars would scare people. I had a friend that was afraid that if she told me that she cut, I would stop being her friend. I told her, it's nothing to be upset about. If someone stops being your friend over something like that, then they never were your friend.

I'm sorry that your relationship didn't work out, but you will be ok. It's not the end of the world.

[Hatsune Miku]

Thanks.
I told one of my friends a while back that I cut. And he got freaked out and told almost the whole school. Jerk :l

[CourageWolf]

Sounds like a real good friend...nah not really.

[Hatsune Miku]

Sounds like a real good friend...nah not really.

Yeah, we're not friends anymore. For obvious reasons

[CourageWolf]

Makes sense.

BTW, you're only 14. You're going to meet SOOO many more girls. You think shes the only one who will get you now but no matter how truly you think that, you're wrong. Just saying.

[Seeker94]

For real mate ^.^ quite a few people know I cut and I still have plenty of friends. I dont got any girls at the school but I do have a beautiful girlfriend right now. She is 17 she lives in the UK and her name is Aimee. You might know her. SHE IS AWSOME! Feel free to talk to either me or BeautifulDisaster if you need to talk to anyone. I especially know how you feel bro. I'm here for you mate.

[2D]

Time heals all, but other stuff helps. Get out, meet people, and don't dwell on the past.

[CuriousDestruction]

i agree with 2D, go out, live life. remember the past but don't dwell on it forever. you'll be ok.

[1_21Guns]

It's already been about 2 weeks since my girlfriend broke up with me and I still can't get over it. I keep telling myself to suck it up and be a man. but I keep thinking about all the fun we've had in the past 10 months. Everything we've been through, and it overwhelms me. She was the only one who actually understood me. I also keep thinking that nobody else will ever love me. Im weird, horrible at every sport, once they see over a years worth scars on my arm I will have to tell them the truth, and that will pretty much make whoever im with break up with me. What should I do? I need to get this whole breakup off my mind. Its eating away at me, I can't bear it anymore. I know I sound like a total pussy, maybe I am, but there's alot of background stuff to this that I don't feel like typing because its extremely long.

You'll most probably get over her in time, and even if you never completely get over her you'll meet loads of other girls who understand you, you'll even find some that don't care about your scars. You're only 14, so breaking up with someone who gets you probably is going to feel like the end of the world. But in my opinion, your not a pussy, your human, humans have emotions for a reason. At the end of the day, you'll find the girl who likes you for who you are, you're still young, don't let it get you down and live a little. Good luck.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Find another person. Don't do it till your ready of course but when you do you will feel so much better.

[Hatsune Miku]

Thanks everyone. I think I've been getting a little bit better day by day, but I still feel like shit. Dammit get the fuck out of my head! It's probably because this was my first girlfriend. Everything was going so great, then out of nowhere...

I been trying to find another girl, but luck isn't on my side. I don't think im ready anyways

[Hatsune Miku]

I think I've finally gotten over her. I was talking to her today and she said

"I miss you too. I don't hate you its just I have a boyfriend. There's alot of girls that aren't me out there and one of them has to like you"

Hearing that made me feel alot better. Now I know she doesn't hate me. Plus for some of you who don't know, we live in different states. Not a huge distance apart though.
But she knows that if things between her and her new boyfriend don't work out, I'll be there. Waiting