Cancer

[Zazu]

Hi all, i know im not really a regular poster but i really want some help. In the last week i have found out that my nan has an advanced stage of agressive cancer of the womb. When i first found out i was really upset and cried a bit but now the full shock of it is only really just setting in. But the problem i have is that i really want to be upset but i really feel i cant be as i am trying to help my mum come through this as she is obviously really upset. My dad isnt really the kind of guy who i could tell about how i fell, even though he is a great dad. And none of my friends at school would want to listen to me (i've tried) despite the fact that i've always been there for them, and trust me, ive helped one friend through a suicidal patch. I just really want to know how i can cope with this as at the moment as i feel really sad and i feel like shit, even though most of the time i try to ignore it and get on with my life I just want to be able to cope with the grief. If anyone could help it would be great. Cheers :)

[TheWizard]

I'm sorry to hear about your nan. Try to think of all the great things you have done with your nan. Stay strong for her because she needs your support.

[R_master]

i hope your nan gets well.

my aunt died from the same thing, i loved her.

[TheWizard]

Sorry I was trying to help. You are right.

[Zazu]

Ok, thanks guys :)

[Zazu]

Well, just to say, i have now found out that my nan doesnt have cancer, one of her tests came back negative. Thanks for all the help :)

[Physicist]

Well, just to say, i have now found out that my nan doesnt have cancer, one of her tests came back negative. Thanks for all the help :)

That's great! But does she feel ok? It can be even worse to feel bad and not know what is wrong and for it to be undiagnosed.

[Hyper]

Well I've had expierinces with cancer.. My grandfather died into it, infront of my eyes he died.. I realy liked my grandfather he was a good person..

My mother has had cancer 2 times 1 before I was born and the 2nd time was 2 years ago.. Though she is fine now.. I was very worried for her.. I couldnt cry I couldnt eat I just kept thinking what if shes gone? I live with my mother alone I dont realy know my father like that.. So yeah but I am glad your nan is okey.

[northskater110]

yahoo!! im hapi 4 u, cuz that would really suck cuz i love mi grams. :)

so stay strong, always, for the people u love, cuz u never no when it may be your or their time to go
(that means to die for people that arent smart XD)

~grant