I miss her.....

[Seeker94]

I know it seems pointless to be deppressed about this but I havent talked to my girlfriend in a couple days but for mere minutes.....her family is abusive and I worry for her which makes me deppressed......I cant take not knowing if she is ok or not......I just dont know what to do or what I will do if she isnt ok.....:(:(

[SurfDudeJason]

Thats a really tough place to be dude. All you can do is be there for her when she needs you to be. I know that doesnt help the scared feelings you have right now but I hope she knows that she can ask you for help if she needs it. I am sorry for your situation I really am. I have a very good freind that is in a similar place right now. I have know her for many years and I know what goes on and it pisses me off BIG TIME.. I am always there though and I think that means a lot.

-Peace dude.. be strong for you and her

[Seeker94]

Thanks bro that helps a little and makes it a little more bareable.....I really mean that. thanks....

[Sapphire]

You have to learn to relax a bit. You can't spend every day worrying about what may or may not be happening to her. It will drive you mad. How you reacted the day before last is testament to that.
If you let yourself dwell on it all and then end up doing that, are you really being strong for her?

Distract yourself from these intrusive thoughts. Go running, play chess, cook something - there's no limit to what you can do to distract yourself.
Then try relaxing once you've done that. Meditating is a good one. Having a long shower and just concentrating on how the water feels also helps. If those don't work then find something else.

You have to look after yourself so you can be there for her.

[CuriousDestruction]

i'm sorry for what you are going through. it's hard to be isolated from someone you love. i know it's hard, but you have to let yourself be for a while until you can speak to her. you have to relax like sapphire said.