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bonsai94
February 16th, 2010, 09:10 PM
i dont know if i am gay or straight or even confusied becaue there is this guy that i think is real kida hot and is that normal for a guy. so i need some help i feel lost.

Lifeguard18
February 16th, 2010, 10:02 PM
you could be just curious, you could be gay, or even possibly bi. if youre more attracted to guys than girls, i would think youre gay. how old are you?

cherry_boi
February 16th, 2010, 10:30 PM
try not to label urself...you don't have to define what sexuality you are...especially at your age, chances are ur interests will change, at least slightly, several times throughout your life.

it cud be a phase, cud be hormones, or you cud be gay/bi/curious....all are normal

no one can really tell u, u just gotta feel it out for urself, and it's ok to not be sure right now

:)

iceyfresh
February 16th, 2010, 10:32 PM
Your a teenager in puberty it's probobally just a faze No Worry's

nick
February 17th, 2010, 06:33 AM
It can take time for your feelings to settle during puberty and there is no point rushing to put a label on yourself. Just being able to recognise that a guy looks hot doesnt make you gay, you would need to ask yourself whether you actually feel you would want to get sexual with him, and then in the more general sense whether you could imagine dating, eventually setting up home with perhaps, another guy.

bonsai94
February 17th, 2010, 10:33 PM
i am 15 years old

CourageWolf
February 17th, 2010, 10:35 PM
If you like anal sex with men you're gay.
If you like vaginal sex with women you're straight.
If you like both you're bi.

CourageWolf
February 17th, 2010, 10:36 PM
Post Part 2.

You're only 15, it might be really confusing until you grow up a bit and figure out what you like and are attracted to. Don't put pressure on yourself now to define your sexuality.

bonsai94
February 17th, 2010, 10:48 PM
are u gay. because i do think he is realy hot and i am just so lost.

CourageWolf
February 17th, 2010, 10:50 PM
Straight.

I don't exactly find other men "hot". But I know a good looking guy from a not so good looking one.

Lifeguard18
February 17th, 2010, 10:53 PM
i am 15 years old

you should give yourself a little more time. by the time your 16, late 16, or 17, youll find out who you truly are