Crushing on a druggie...

[DayBreakArt]

So, my friend really likes this guy but she's one of those people that are completely against drugs. I'm not quite sure what I'm asking but... What should she do? I dunno. I tried to tell her to ask him out and just forget about the drug thing. He only does weed anyways. but yeah.

[Nihilus]

Well I would say she should ask him not to smoke anything while they are in a relationship. If she likes she should ask him but tell him no to drugs and alcohol.

[betakuwe]

I think she shouldn't tell him to stop since its his decision but give him her opinion and just advise him to stop and if he likes her then should she tell him to stop or something.

[INFERNO]

If she likes the guy, then she should be able to live with his habit of weed use. Telling him to not smoke at all is not a relationship, it's essentially a tyranny and it's likely to be doomed if she is that bossy about just one small issue. If she likes him that much, then she can live with his weed use. Perhaps she can ask him not to smoke around her or if they're going to go on a date, not to smoke a few days before out of curteousy only.

[Zazu]

My view is that it's only weed. Things like alcohol and most prescription drugs are more harmful so why be worried about cannabis? You wouldn't panic if you found out he'd been taking aspirin / paracetamol / anti-depressants, so why worry about weed?

[janjanTRIP_]

Well I would say she should ask him not to smoke anything while they are in a relationship. If she likes she should ask him but tell him no to drugs and alcohol.

uhm, no. if he does drugs, he does drugs. He shouldnt have to change for a relationship that will probably fail in due time.

My view is that it's only weed. Things like alcohol and most prescription drugs are more harmful so why be worried about cannabis? You wouldn't panic if you found out he'd been taking aspirin / paracetamol / anti-depressants, so why worry about weed?

If she likes the guy, then she should be able to live with his habit of weed use. Telling him to not smoke at all is not a relationship, it's essentially a tyranny and it's likely to be doomed if she is that bossy about just one small issue. If she likes him that much, then she can live with his weed use. Perhaps she can ask him not to smoke around her or if they're going to go on a date, not to smoke a few days before out of curteousy only.

[xxBrydenxx]

She should just over look the weed. If she really likes him than it shouldn't matter that he smokes. I smoke weed and everything is fine(=

[Sapphire]

My view is that it's only weed. Things like alcohol and most prescription drugs are more harmful so why be worried about cannabis? You wouldn't panic if you found out he'd been taking aspirin / paracetamol / anti-depressants, so why worry about weed?
This sums up my view very succinctly.
If he were using weed pretty much everyday or into cocaine, heroin or something similar then it would be reasonable for her to challenge him over his drug use.
But the occasional bit of weed isn't something to be too worried about tbh.

Of course, she should make it known that she would rather him not smoke around her. Out of courtesy, he should oblige.

[Watchfulness]

Don't lead your friend into corruption.

[CourageWolf]

Druggies r ppl too!11!!11!!!
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[cool person]

From the title I was expecting that the dude was ino something serious like herion. Smoking weed does not qualify someone as a druggie

[Lemonlover934]

my boyfriend smokes weed but to be honest its his choice, it doesnt make him a bad person, or change who he is to me. honestly his drinking worries me more. and if she really likes him, go for it, if she cant handle it, least she gave it a go x

[nickw_2013]

my boyfriend smokes weed but to be honest its his choice, it doesnt make him a bad person, or change who he is to me. honestly his drinking worries me more. and if she really likes him, go for it, if she cant handle it, least she gave it a go x
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