I want a child to call my own

[Dannybre]

I would love having a son to call my own, one that I could love and care for. Is there any options for getting a child at my age, besides sex? If this is located in the wrong place, Im sorry.-this is for my fiend Seeker94, if you dont believe me, ask him.

[Nelson]

At 15 i dont think you can be a legal parent, you cant adopt a kid. And if you do have sex with a girl, child services will step in :(

[nick]

No, you cant expect just to be given a child at your age and frankly that's a totally selfish thought. At the very least you should be looking to complete your education, get a home, get a job, have the means to feed and support that child. Also if you only want a son you have the wrong way of thinking.

[Inconvenience]

No, you cant expect just to be given a child at your age and frankly that's a totally selfish thought. At the very least you should be looking to complete your education, get a home, get a job, have the means to feed and support that child. Also if you only want a son you have the wrong way of thinking.

agree!


u're kid urself to have a kid! u can't take care of him. u think love can do everything, but it's wrong. it's not only love that matter when arising a kid. it needs a lot of responsibility, which i'm sure u don't have in ur age.

anyways, i'd say.. if u want it so much wait until u're 18 at least. and think about all the necessary things like having a job, education etc. like, do u want ur parents to keep ur family? i think we must take care of our families not disturbing our parents ;) so thing about this :) life's not that easy. ur'e still wearing pink glasses, take them off :)

[Dannybre]

oh ok, btw, this is not my question, this is my friend's question. Srry, i meant to say child. I have a two year old child already and my friend gets really jealous and he wants a child too. I have a job already. I have no problems supporting my son. I guess thats it then. Post closed?

[Inconvenience]

oh ok, btw, this is not my question, this is my friend's question. Srry, i meant to say child. I have a two year old child already and my friend gets really jealous and he wants a child too. Im rich and have a job set up for me already. I have no problems supporting my son. I guess thats it then. Post closed?

wow, young daddy :D

[Seeker94]

Yeah he is -.-' and a lucky one at dat -pouts-

[Dannybre]

^^^BTW, this post was for seeker94, the guy above me^^^

[Seeker94]

Lol Yupp you know it and I would love to have one and I have alot of maturity for my age and all that stupid social services got me screwed though -.-'

[nick]

I am very nerdy. I play video games, Yugioh, Pokemon, I love Naruto, I dont play sports, and I'm not very cute or handsome. I am also not a virgin, but nobody believes me, I know why, but still. I have told a few of my friends, but only one of them believes me. It kinda makes me a little sad that some of my best friends dont believe me. I just want them to believe me is all. What should I do? I just need people to believe me. It kinda bothers me.
Funny that, you'd think they would believe you given the evidence of a 2-year old child.

[Dannybre]

thats just the thing, my sister is a well, she gets "paid", if you know what I mean. Shes done it many times, and they kinda joke around bout my son being hers, cuz they cant seem to believe me.

[Seeker94]

Then they are asses ^.^ he is a cute kid ^.^

[Dannybre]

oh well

[manlymadness]

A child is not an accery nor a play thing! It is a big job and you arent ready and mature enough!and wat does this have to do with sexuality!!are you ready to give up having a life for child that will keep you up all night!!enjoy your life live it to the fullest before having a child becuase you wont be able to half the stuff you can now!

[Dannybre]

Yes, babyface is rite. That is something I forgot to meantion. A child isnt easy to care for. You need to give it special attention. It consumes a lot of time, energy, and resources. Its not a play toy, although it is cute! Especialy since you are single, it will be even harder.

[CuriousDestruction]

the only way for someone your age is through sex with another girl. i'm not going to give you my speech on why you shouldn't have a kid at 15, but i will tell you to be careful and make sure you can handle this. PM me if you want to talk about this.

[cody2010]

don't get me wrong, i can't wait to be a dad! but i'm not sure i'm even ready for a kid at 17. i think a baby is way to big of a responsibility for a 15 year old. just my opinion.

[Dannybre]

Bad news, my son has gotten into an accident on the playground. One of the kids pushed him off the slide and he fell and got a broken arm and a few broken ribs. Hes in the hospital rite now. Im spending the nite with him, and I might need a little comfort. I dont know what I'd do with out him. It was so scary though, all I could do was stand there and watch my baby fall. It was a horrifying sight forme, I doont knoew wat id do with out him . :'(

[AgusCO]

He will get better, I assume he is being taken good care of :) (Both from you and the doctors)
I still wonder why anyone would want a child so young, even if you can support him in every way...But,well it's not in my plans to marry or have a child anytime in the future so I wouldn't understand

[Dannybre]

He was born unexpectedly when I was 13. I didnt know I'd get a girl pregnant

[AgusCO]

He was born unexpectedly when I was 13. I didnt know I'd get a girl pregnant

Oh,the second sentence was actually about your friend's desire.

[Seeker94]

Lol yeah it's just I know they arnt play things, or anything but a pain in the butt at times but when they are asleep or having fun they are the cutest ^.^ right now I'm dating a girl and in december she is coming to where I live (Aimee) and I cant wait!!! But no I wont try and get her prego I make that vow now.

Edit: at least until we get older and if she wants to have my child

[pageplant77]

Dude I feel ya, I want a kid too. But other variables come into play, you have to be financially and emotionally stable in order to have and support a child to make sure that he has a normal childhood.

[Giles]

Dude I feel ya, I want a kid too. But other variables come into play, you have to be financially and emotionally stable in order to have and support a child to make sure that he has a normal childhood.

That's why no child that has a father who is 15 is going to have a normal or happy childhood.

[Dannybre]

There is no such thing as a normal childhood. Everyone grows up differently. Just cuz a parent is 15, it doesnt mean the child will have a miserable childhood. Cody has been a happy child, until two days ago when he got hurt, but he is still happy now. My son is a pretty strong little boy, makes me wanna cry sometimes

[Seeker94]

Yeah forget the comment about my girlfriend....I mean Ex.