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[RStatham94]

I like anal stimulation, but after I do it, I feel awful and hate myself and wish I haven't done it.
Can someone help please :confused:

[Zanra]

Well let's find out the cause. Why do you hate yourself afterdoing it?

[RStatham94]

Well let's find out the cause. Why do you hate yourself afterdoing it?

I don't know, I just hate myself for doing and wish I hadn't, don't know why

[Rower]

dont do it... pretty simple if u hate ur self

[RStatham94]

dont do it... pretty simple if u hate ur self

I get myself in the mood to do it, and cannot wait to get my finger in my bumhole but after I hate myself :confused:

[nick]

Well its probably because it seems taboo and may make you feel as if you're doing something "dirty" or gay.

I think the first thing to realise, which you can tell from reading other threads here on VT, is that you are not the only one that does this. Lots of guys enjoy anal stimulation whatever their sexuality, so it doesnt make you gay or in any way unusual.

There is no reason to feel bad or guilty about it, you are exploring your own body and giving yourself pleasure, its just an extension to masturbation which is a natural activity enjoyed by just about all teenagers.

[RStatham94]

Well its probably because it seems taboo and may make you feel as if you're doing something "dirty" or gay.

I think the first thing to realise, which you can tell from reading other threads here on VT, is that you are not the only one that does this. Lots of guys enjoy anal stimulation whatever their sexuality, so it doesnt make you gay or in any way unusual.

There is no reason to feel bad or guilty about it, you are exploring your own body and giving yourself pleasure, its just an extension to masturbation which is a natural activity enjoyed by just about all teenagers.

True, I've never told any of my friends or anything, but I dunno, as soon as I cum, I hate it and wish I haven't done it and want to forget it's happened. I also panic that it's not going to tighten up again back there.

[King of Clubs]

it wont stay open after ur fingers been up there mate, lol, imagine squeezing out a big turd? alot thicker than ur finger ;)


Wen it comes down to it, if u regret doing it afterwards make sure u enjoy doing it even more lol, alot of people feel dirty after masterbating, again, its normal :)

[Giles]

Lots of people feel guilty after normal masturbation. As anal stimulation is just a different way to cause more pleasure it's exactly the same feeling.

Nick is right about what he said about the whole taboo around even just standard masturbation - even more so anal masturbation.

It's fine though, just as most teenagers masturbate - a large chunk of them will try anal masturbation at some point.

[shadman]

I think I'ma gona try that ;D

[iceyfresh]

Ok first reason poping into my mind would be guilt. Your horrny and think what ever it feels good and i like it but back in your mind you know it dosnt feel right. After "finishing" and are no longer horrny you feel guilty. Juts a posssible awnser but hey No Worry's :D

[chase.]

It's normal for some kids. I'm sure when you first jacked-off you felt the guilt too. Thats all it is. It'll go away.