View Full Version : PLEASE HELP! Gays and Bi only.
Seeker94
February 14th, 2010, 11:57 PM
I have come to terms that I think I might be bi and the only ones I have told are well VT and a couple of other people which are close friends. I want some help to figure a way to come out to my gparents and then maybe my gay hating father.....Please help anything from Bi's would be helpful.
Baudelaire
February 15th, 2010, 12:03 AM
I wouldnt come out to your grand parents, and THEN your parents. to be honest, I think they would tell them.
Anyway, your father is still your father, and would love you even if you were a criminal, so you have to remember that being bi is who you are. And he might not like it, and other people might not as well, but even if your parents don't like it, your their child and they will always have unconditional love for you.
Seeker94
February 15th, 2010, 12:05 AM
Well I live with my gparents so that is who I have to come out to :/ but thanks for da help. Anyone else?
Dreaming Cannibal
February 15th, 2010, 12:20 AM
if you know their thought on the subject and they don't care sure go ahead. but if there's something they don't like about it, I think, and feel it is the best. I came out to my parents and at the time they didnt care but now, they think it was just a phase…
MacMilker
February 15th, 2010, 12:31 AM
im gay and honestly i think its wrong to say bis only considering gay people have just as good advice.
anyways, i wouldnt tell g parents considering that generation is gay hatting probably more than your fathers generation and i think your father prob got his hate from his dad. anyways. maybe just dont tell anyone. im out and im starting to consider maybe it wasnt such a good idea after all
Seeker94
February 15th, 2010, 12:32 AM
Sorry I meant no offense it's just idk the situation is slightly different.
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