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cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 08:22 AM
A while ago now, i gave up using porn, as i felt too guilty using it. However, recently, on the rare occasion, i watch porn and i give in. The whole experience masturbating is a lot better, but i am not addicted to it.

However, i don't know if i should just give up giving up, and actually use porn, or give up again. (If you understand what i mean.)

See, i'm too scared my parents will find out, and i will be in so much trouble. However, i'm not religous in any way, so that isn't a problem.

So you know, i take many staps to cover my tracks. I use a PSP, as that is the easiest machine to delete all your history on. (Unloike a PC, it doesn't have temporary files etc). I delete all cookies, cache, authentication info and input history. I close every single tap and clear all history, and that is everything. I also only view pictures as i find videos as a turn off and i don't go on anything illegal (Like under 18 and so on). If i believe anything is wrong, like child porn, i stay far away. So basically, i only use pictures.

Should i give it up, or give in and use it, but only at times so i am not addicted to it.

Thanks.

P.S: I am currently trying to stay away from it until i have made a decision here.

Mods: Please don't delete this, as i really need this solved. Thanks.

King of Clubs
February 14th, 2010, 08:27 AM
its entirely up to urself mate, wat do u feel? if u like to watch/look at porn occasionally than do it, but dont believe that everyone u will sleep with/meet will be like that because chancers are they wont be, just watch it if u want to and if u dont... well... dont

cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 11:32 AM
its entirely up to urself mate, wat do u feel? if u like to watch/look at porn occasionally than do it, but dont believe that everyone u will sleep with/meet will be like that because chancers are they wont be, just watch it if u want to and if u dont... well... dont

Oh no, i don't expect that. It's only used to 'Start me off', if you know what i mean.

It's just that i don't want ot get found out. Is it common/natural, if you know what i mean? See, my body craves it, so i'm not sure.

I just need somebody to help me make up my mind if i definatly Do or Don't view porn.

beedubs
February 14th, 2010, 11:56 AM
well when you do watch it, when your done hit CTRL-SHIFT-DELETE, then mark all the boxes and press the delete button, your browser will be clear. as for if you should watch it, its all up to you.

cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 12:02 PM
well when you do watch it, when your done hit CTRL-SHIFT-DELETE, then mark all the boxes and press the delete button, your browser will be clear. as for if you should watch it, its all up to you.

I said i use a PSP as that clears easily.

I need to know, is Porn natural, or unhealthy. If you know what i mean...

TheTruth
February 14th, 2010, 12:10 PM
Porn can be really unhealthy if you become addicted to it of course but as long as your not and you only view it rarely i would think it's fine. If you really dont want to caught then always masturbate to porn when your parents are out and of course delete your entire history. Im not sure about psp's but i downloaded a program from yahoo or something called ccleaner which deletes everthing from browsing history to temporary files.

Oh and 1 more thing, just go with what you feel like, you said your stayin away until you make a decision well you don't have to choose. Just watch it if you feel like it and if you dont feel like it then dont. Just go with the flow:)

cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 12:13 PM
Porn can be really unhealthy if you become addicted to it of course but as long as your not and you only view it rarely i would think it's fine. If you really dont want to caught then always masturbate to porn when your parents are out and of course delete your entire history. Im not sure about psp's but i downloaded a program from yahoo or something called ccleaner which deletes everthing from browsing history to temporary files.

Oh and 1 more thing, just go with what you feel like, you said your stayin away until you make a decision well you don't have to choose. Just watch it if you feel like it and if you dont feel like it then dont. Just go with the flow:)

Well said, thanks.

Well, i won't get addicted, as i think viewing it too much is wrong, but only when i masturbate, and that is it.

When i fill out surveys on VT, shall i officialy say yes to these questions now? Or shall i keep it a secret. (Except for this thread.)

King of Clubs
February 14th, 2010, 12:24 PM
nothing to be ashamed of mate, if u want to do it, most Teens will do it, it is NORMAL

cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 12:32 PM
nothing to be ashamed of mate, if u want to do it, most Teens will do it, it is NORMAL

Thanks for clearing that up for me.

I won't hide it anymore. Thanks for making me feel confident.

See, masturbation is rubbish without it, so having this sorted just made it a whole lot better.

Thanks all.

BlackBetty
February 14th, 2010, 12:39 PM
If it on a PSP, I couldn't see any parents saying "Let me see your history on your PSP right now."

I watch it on my iTouch and hell, I don't bother getting rid of the history.

Jerry21
February 14th, 2010, 12:41 PM
U dnt have 2 keep it a secreate.itz normal for all boyz 2 watch porn.ur parentz asume u watch it any wayz.evry boy watches porn.just watch it some were private like da bathroom.I watch it.ur friendz watch it.nd even ur dad.but they dnt admitt it.

cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 12:42 PM
If it on a PSP, I couldn't see any parents saying "Let me see your history on your PSP right now."

I watch it on my iTouch and hell, I don't bother getting rid of the history.

Thanks.

That made me feel a lot safer.

Resinflux
February 14th, 2010, 12:44 PM
My mom walked in on me jerking once >.< Then again while i was just watching porn. Both times she just walked back out the room xD Heh..taught her to knock on the door first LOL its not a big deal if your parents are lax about that stuff

cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 12:46 PM
My mom walked in on me jerking once >.< Then again while i was just watching porn. Both times she just walked back out the room xD Heh..taught her to knock on the door first LOL its not a big deal if your parents are lax about that stuff

Well my Mom is open about Sex-Ed and puberty as i am at that age now. My sister even lets me use her laptop but says 'Aslong as your not watching Porn', so yeah, i guess they probably know.

King of Clubs
February 14th, 2010, 12:47 PM
your parents might be pissed if they find out, dont get me wrong, if they find anything chances are they wont say anything as they know ur doing it, best to cover ur tracks but dont stress over it... i watch it on my laptop and just lock it afterwards, dont bother deleting history cos then i cant find my favourite sites!

cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 01:03 PM
your parents might be pissed if they find out, dont get me wrong, if they find anything chances are they wont say anything as they know ur doing it, best to cover ur tracks but dont stress over it... i watch it on my laptop and just lock it afterwards, dont bother deleting history cos then i cant find my favourite sites!

Thanks for all the help guys. I feel a lot calmer and less stressed about it now.

I'll still delete my history to be sure, but now i can stop worrying about it.

Thanks.

cooldude123
February 14th, 2010, 01:59 PM
Well, i have had second thoughts...

You see, the girl i asked out today hates Porn and things like that, so i have decided to quit, for her.

Wish me luck, and thanks for all the help.