First time

[pageplant77]

Alright so I am almost 16 and a lot of the guys in my grade are always talking about how they've had sex and all that shit....and I'm still a virgin and I have a gf now and I'm a bit nervous to do anything, I just wanna know what its like and how different the relationship is gonna be

[Rainscape]

I'm in the same boat bro.... except im 14 going on 15

[yankeefan7723]

Most guys lie about that thing so don't worry about it. Chances are, most of them haven't and when I say most I mean 99%.

If you aren't ready to have sex don't. Don't succumb to peer pressure.

[MKdonalds]

my idea is dont rush into things yet

[Dannybre]

sex will change ur entire relationship, trust me, I have, i gotta kid

[damoooryan]

Have her over when know one is home. If you have a pool suggest going in it. Get changed in front of her

[pageplant77]

Thanks guys

[King of Clubs]

Theyre lying.. if u wanna do it use a condom wat ever you do... but most people just lie anyway.. supposed to be "cool"

[nick]

Dont feel that you have to rush in to sex just to keep up with the other guys, you need to wait until the time is right for you and for your girlfriend, dont work to anybody else's timetable. Like the other guys have already said, some of your friends are probably just lying about it to "look big" anyway.

If you both feel that you are ready then obviously make sure its safe sex, but also you should expect to feel nervous and probably a bit shy and awkward about it first time too. Dont expect everything to be perfect first time, but if you love each other that really doesnt matter. Part of the fun is helping each other to learn and to improve.

[CuriousDestruction]

look, most people our age totally lie about sex. like, 90% of the guys in my grade at my school claim to be sex gods. maybe 10% actually have had sex and none of them will be sex gods.

people tend to rush into sex before they are ready and not only can it ruin a relationship but it can be a little traumatic to the people involved. i'm not saying don't have sex. i'm saying make sure you and your partner are ready and can handle it.

if you don't think you are, that's totally okay. many relationships function very well without sex. all in all, don't worry about the other kids too much and focus on you and your gf. that's all that matters. i wish you luck and feel free to PM me about this.

[Hollywood]

at least u have a gf
i cant even get that far

oh well more jacking for me! lol