acceptance, no more ignoring

[tboned]

For a couple years i have been ignoring the fact that i believe i am gay. Im totally feminine and am not into anything other guys are. My friends are mostly girls. Everybody at school calls me gay and it has gotten worse recently. Im pretty sure I am yet i deny that I am to people when they ask. Im tired of people calling me "faggot" and other names. I want to come out. But i dont know how to. I know my family will accept it, they pretty much already figure that I am, and they say it is okay no matter what I am. I am grateful for that. I want the name calling to end. Once I officialy say i am gay, i think it will get better. If someone calls me a fag, i want to be able to say, yes i am. But if i say that to one person, i might be in over my head because i feel like i might not be ready to fully come out to everybody.

[kwazyasian]

ppl harass me too by callin me gay and a faggot but im totaly straight but im kinda metro and most of my friends are girls too. but whatever happens dont be discouraged cause your sexuality. if your gay more power to you and if your not thats c

[nick]

For a couple years i have been ignoring the fact that i believe i am gay. Im totally feminine and am not into anything other guys are. My friends are mostly girls. Everybody at school calls me gay and it has gotten worse recently. Im pretty sure I am yet i deny that I am to people when they ask. Im tired of people calling me "faggot" and other names. I want to come out. But i dont know how to. I know my family will accept it, they pretty much already figure that I am, and they say it is okay no matter what I am. I am grateful for that. I want the name calling to end. Once I officialy say i am gay, i think it will get better. If someone calls me a fag, i want to be able to say, yes i am. But if i say that to one person, i might be in over my head because i feel like i might not be ready to fully come out to everybody.
In your particular case, if you are really sure that you are gay, I think it might actually improve things if you were to come out. If you are getting taunted about it anyway it might even shut a few people up. You are lucky to know that your parents will still love and support you. Maybe you should come out to them first and then ask them for their advice too.

[Inconvenience]

u've gotta bit up a "faggot"-caller or two in front everyone and all the other's gonna shut up ;) don't bow on there's nothing on ppl's way to bull

[TheTruth]

WOAH WHOAH slow down, Just ask yourself if you are attracted to guys physically and emotionaly because im in the exact sort of situation i'm called gay all the time even though ive had girlfriends and most of my friends are girls to but im just really camp lol. Dont go labelling yourself to soon.

[CuriousDestruction]

i agree with above^^ if you aren't attracted to other guys physically and emotionally you probably aren't gay. just cuz you are feminine doesn't make you gay. trust me. if you are attracted to guys then maybe you are and coming out may help. but make sure you are before you do come out.