Are You Comfortable With Your Sexuality?

[Cynic]

Read the title.

Basically, I am asking if you like the way you are. For example, if you were bi, would you want to be straight, gay, something else? Personally, I wish I could be straight, but there's no changing the way I am, so I'm over it.

What about you?

[Mr. Smithers]

I feel that I am pretty comfortable with the way I am. I'm not gonna lie. There are some times where I would like to be normal, but I think that I am happy just the way I am now.

[Mattasaur94]

I'm straight,
I'm relatively happy with it. Occaisionally I'll get told a guy likes me and I'll be like, "Huh, thats weird... I wonder what it'd be like..." but then I lose that train of thought and think about other things.

[Resinflux]

57% of the time i hate being gay :/

[Sugaree]

Yes I'm more than comfortable with being bisexual. Of course, that isn't to say I don't have my thoughts. I've often looked at the opposite sex and think, "I wonder what it would be like if I were straight." and that's it. Do I wish to be normal? Well, to clarify, there *is* no normal. It's impossible to be "normal" since not one person can classify themselves as the normal human being. To be normal, you'd have to be perfect in everything and that isn't possible.

Do I think there is a way I can change? No. This is who I am and that's not something you can change. It's like changing the color of a dress. You can change it from blue to purple to green and it will still be a dress. It's useless to try and change me or anyone else for that matter. If this is who I am, then let me be who I am and you can be the person you are. End of.

[Cynic]

Well, to clarify, there *is* no normal. It's impossible to be "normal" since not one person can classify themselves as the normal human being. To be normal, you'd have to be perfect in everything and that isn't possible.

I completely agree. Most people don't realize the individualism that still exists today all around us.

[Rutherford The Brave]

I like women, and that will never change. I am completly comfortable with my sexuality.

[munchausen]

I'm bi but I'd rather be straight.

[Billy15]

no im not comfortable with it at all because i think i am gay and gay isnt accepted around here at all. if i had a choice i would choose to be straight but like you said i dont think thats possible. if gay was such a bad word around here i might feel different.

[cherry_boi]

i am happy being bi.

sux sometimes, but i'm sure there are downfalls that come with each sexuality

wud i change it if i cud?

some days Yes....

....most days No

[Baudelaire]

hm...no, not at all really, its hard because even though I'm know for a fact that I'm not alone on being sexually curious....its hard to find anyone who gets me.

[cody2010]

i'm just now starting to feel comfortable with my sexuality. but i wouldn't change the way i am just because society wants me to be a certian way.

[Nelson]

I'm bi, i like it, somedays i wish i didnt have a "sexuality" but then sometimes i dont :S

[Cats In Space]

I'm Gay. 60% of the time is regretting everything I think about. I dislike being Gay, but sometimes you can't change what you are.

[XxHaViiK]

Bi and I love it

[boysboysboys]

I love being GAY.
100% love it!

[CuriousDestruction]

i'm indifferent to be frank. if i was straight i'd be okay. if i was gay i'd be okay. you are what you are in this world. that's life.

[Dannybre]

bi and i love it!:yeah:

[shoeboxluv]

I'm gay and most of the time I wish I was straight. My dreams include having my own family one day. do you know how hard it is for a gay man to adopt or get a surrogate? We already can't marry in most of the USA.
I wish I could be proud and prance around in parades, but I don't think I'll ever feel 100% happy with my sexuality.

[thepieman]

I'm bi and I'm cool with it. I wouldn't rather be anything else, I'm just happy to be who I am. I suppose I've had it pretty easy though, so if I hadn't been as accepted then I'd probably be less happy. But thankfully, everything has gone well so far.

[Botchy]

My Sexuality is fine i have no problem being bi i see it as an acquired taste anyway ther are things i would much rather change, wish i did not have AS but thats life at the end of the day

[alex.c]

I've always wanted to find a girl, get married, settle down and have lots of screaming, crying, pooping little babies and grandchildren but I know that that will never happen. If i had the opportunity to change I would take it but unfortunatly life doesnt work that way.
Although I see loads of happy gay people, nearly everybody gets slagged, which isnt fair since were basiclly no different than other people.
Most of my friends dont care, others feel awkward. I havent come out yet, I'm waiting for a miracle, mainly because my dad is a homophobe.
But I'll wait a few years in hope that Destiny will save me

[AlwaysConfused]

i guess i would be comfortable with my sexuality but i guess the negative influences around me make me uncomfortable with it

[Dunce]

Well, first I was straight, and then I completely went off boys and men for what seems like no reason. I started to like girls(I didnt choose it, I just did) and i was really uncomfortable with it. then, when I finally started to love liking girls.... i went off them. I dont know whats wrong with me :( its like a psychological thing. So yeah, I'm at a slightly gay mostly asexual stage and I hate it.
I know alot of people like being asexual but i also know a large number of asexuals have never felt attraction to someone else.
I feel like i'll never grasp love or the feelings people have for others. it's screwing me up quite a bit, believing in love is hard when you are not attracted to people anymore :(

[Jess]

I am comfortable with me being straight

[scuba steve]

i am 99.9% i'm straight (since it's impossible to be 100% of one sexuality)

[maczed]

im comfortable being bi

[Tankinx91]

Actually I'm in counseling because I'm not exactly comfortable with being bi. That being said, nope not comfortable with it.

[HillBillyWilly]

Im totally fine with being straight

[ati5870]

I am comfortable with my sexuality, but it just confuses me sumtimes

[Harley Quinn]

Even though it's a bump, I'm keeping it open for more replies.



Anyways, yeah, I'm comfortable being gay/bi. I've come to accept that, that's just who I am I might as well get used to it.

[MaliciousBunface]

I'm completely happy with me being gay :)

[CantBeTamed]

i use to not be but i am now and if it wernt for the fact gay people arnt liked that well in my area or even most of the state i live in i would be fully out

[Blood]

I'm completely fine with me being straight.

[Aspiringanonymous]

I couldn't honestly be happier. There are always challenges associated with being a 'sexual minority', but that is very much the case with being a minority in any form.

Isn't life a lot more interesting on an unconventional path, anyway?

[josh93]

yeah iam in a way.

[GeneralCrash70]

Read the title.

Basically, I am asking if you like the way you are. For example, if you were bi, would you want to be straight, gay, something else? Personally, I wish I could be straight, but there's no changing the way I am, so I'm over it.

What about you?

Well, there's always a way of changing yourself, it's called will power, you just have to have your heart in that cahange... But I'm pretty satisfies with being heterosexual...

[Asylum]

i am comfortable with being straight, i remeber i did question my sexuality at one point but it's clear now.

[Marcie]

I'm straight, and I always have been and always will be. :-)

[Number02]

I have no problem with mine.. I pretty much know I'm straight, so I don't have an issue acting flamyoayn or gay or whatever.

[Zeh Crazy]

Sometimes yes and sometimes no. Not enough to where my family knows. And then the whole religion thing. I'm an Atheist, but what if? Ya know what I mean? And also not enough to where people at my school know. But I have sort of accepted myself as this way and I def know I am bi. I have always been attracted to females, ever since I was a wee thing.

[brandon6123]

im straight and love it but i like to talk to gay/bi guys and let them tell me what to do to myself

[Axellance]

I <3 me as i am :D totally accept it... i love how it has changed my point of view and the way i view people.

[Cloud Spinner]

i'm gay and i'm ok with it. but i'm not out yet

[Greg17]

I'm completely happy with being straight
yes ive had thoughts but they never truly appeal to me.
There's people i know who act very gay with eachother because they're "secure in their sexuality" but not my cup of tea and i'm completely secure.

[ilovegirls15]

100% straight and happy

[aerobooster]

i'm happy i would rather be myself than live a lie

[boy_]

I'm gay and that i can choose my sexuality i would again be gay:)) it's something special although the environment is sick....

[ThomasB.]

I'm bi and i'm happy. Negative comments do sometimes make me want to change my mind though ;)

[Hanyo]

Happily straight, although I often feel like I'm too horny and it causes me to waste a lot of time that I can't really afford...

I think everyone has full ability to choose what they are. You can control your actions, so what you choose to do determines what you are.

You may naturally feel attracted to boys or girls, or both, but who you have sex with doesn't happen by accident (provided you're not raped), you actively choose to do it with someone or not.

If you don't like that you're attracted to boys or girls, you CAN reprogram your brain, but it takes work, more if your attraction is really strong but you are capable of it. Ever hear people say that you can do anything you want if you really want to?? Its true, it just might take a lot of hard work. For example, Michael Jordan wasn't born a b-ball genius, he worked really hard on it for years and years.

So, if you don't like the way you are, there are things you can do about it. Sorry if this hurts anyone's feelings, that's not what I wanted. I just want people to know that they don't have to suffer if they don't like the way they feel.

[Lord_Cosby 13]

I'd have to say no. If You're not straight these days,you're ostracized and crushed. But nobody knows that I'm bi,so I guess it's okay

[CrazyGaga]

i am prettii confused about what i am, but i think im bi! i would realli rather be straight and 'fit in' but i no that probably aint gonna happen, guess im just gonna have to learn to accept it! :(

[justsomekid]

No I'm happy with liking girls but if I were a girl I'd wish I liked boys but I don't. I'm straight and don't really get why someone would really like guys exclusively in a physical manner but it''s all good I guess. I ean it's not me who's attracted to them so why should I really care.

[ortmann123]

well, im very comfortable with my sexuality, but my 13 year old girlfriend isn't. I promissed here i would wait to have sex until shes ready but its getting pretty hard after 6 months

[Magenta]

Totally asexual and it doesn't bother me.

[xHunterXloganx]

I am VERY comfortable with being gay

[JimSauce]

I'm gay but I'd rather be straight...Easier to get a mate, no social stigma, ability to procreate, etc.

I've accepted myself because nothing will change my sexuality, so for now I still look forward to falling in love with the perfect (gay) guy :wub:

[Chrysis]

I'm Bi/Gay (Heteromantic Gay).
I'm not happy with the way I am.
In all honesty, I wish I could be 100% straight.
My family has made it clear they will not be accepting of my being gay (They don't know) so I am just quietly enduring this.
I've dug myself into a hole with my friends, saying I'm not gay, so I can't just turn around and be like "Oh yeah, I am."
So no, I'm not comfortable with it.

[MacMilker]

Do I wish to be normal? Well, to clarify, there *is* no normal. It's impossible to be "normal" since not one person can classify themselves as the normal human being. To be normal, you'd have to be perfect in everything and that isn't possible.


Well, I think normal is commonly confused as average. But I agree.

And to answer the question, I'm bi, and I'm pretty comfortable with the way I am, just the thought of giving up guys scares me! :eek:
I don't know if I could live without boys, they're just so amazing in every way to me,
And not to mention girls, sexy, soft, beautifully figured girls.
I get the best in both worlds, and if someone has a problem thats not gonna' let that affect the way I live, and feel about myself.

[LilTurtle]

i am gay and have been out since i started high school. i am comfortable with who i am and like who i am. i have had a boy friend, i have lots of straight friends and some gay friends. LIFE IS GOOD.

[Thylacine]

Do I like being gay? Hell no it makes everyday life a pain in the ass. But I'm resigned to it now so I dont care its not something I can change.

[wiip]

I'm bi, but I really violently fluctuate on and off bisexuality- I'd like to have one steady sexuality...

[Fourth Dimension]

well this is complicated for me i mean when im with my friends 90% of the time im am comfortable with it but there are times when i feel like im the odd one and the funny thing is i have allot of gay and bi friends which is shocking considering how homophobic my town is and then when im with my family that changes everything i have to hide who i am and it sucks my dads family is EXTREMELY ANTI GAY/BI my moms family are like whatever about it but its just weird around them and it drives me nuts its like i cant be myself so it is complicated for me to say if i am 100% comfortable with being bisexual or not

[Alexithymia]

If I had to choose I would be gay. And I am gay. Why? Because I don't care what others think. Sure, I might feel bad for the girls I reject, but meh, I don't like them.

[Bath]

I am perfectly content with my bisexuality. It's my life, I'm proud of who I am recently, and anybody who doesn't like it can fuck off. (:

[DreamerGirl]

Im proud to be Bi :)

[smitty35]

yes, i am str8

[rextoystory]

I'm straight and I'm completely comfortable with it :D

[Craig1995]

Hmm I'd be straight if I could. Some times when my friends r talking about girls I feel abit left out and I have to add in the yeah she's hot to get rid of suspicion since I never talk about girls.

[Infidelitas]

Im more comfortable now that i have come out as being gay

[Syvelocin]

I'm MORE than comfortable. I wouldn't want to be straight even if I could be. :P

[Geraaboo]

I'm MORE than comfortable. I wouldn't want to be straight even if I could be. :P




^ soo agree ^
im bisexual and very proud i feel comfortable and im happy the way i am

[Sebastian Michaelis]

I'm not sure if I'm gay or bi but I'm defiantly not straight. Either way I'm always happy with who I am. I just don't know if family will be. I'm not worried about friends because you can choose your friends, not your family. Let's hope I chose correctly.

[PAfarmerkid]

At first when I found out Im pretty curious I wasnt at all comfortable. I hid it for almost 2 years. When I finally told some friends Im much more comfortable bout it.

[PoseidonX43]

not that happy but were all not perfect

[Skeptical Bear]

I am pretty much okay with being Bi. Just wish at times that I could have been straight, maybe preventing certain things that happened in my life.

[tyler007]

im str8, but i like messing around with my guy friends, but i dont thinki i would change to be bi. I just like to be me....

and i loved Wicked.... it is an awesome play.

[josh93]

Yes i do feel comfortable with my sexuality.

[UnknownError]

I'm MORE than comfortable. I wouldn't want to be straight even if I could be. :P

I thought choo were? /confused/

[jason123]

Im comfortable with being str8

[Cryofthewolf]

Meh, not completely comfortable with it. I go from girls to guys to girls to guys all the time. It's confusing and makes things awkward when people suspect I am gay/bi/etc. and I don't know what to tell them.

Ah, I'll figure it out someday. Someday being the key word there... -_-

[karnivore]

im coming to terms with my bisexuality. it was a recent realization, but im sure i'll become more comfortable with it in time.

[TheBlackRose321]

Well I'm gay and I'm pretty sure that I am. But idk if I'm proud really.

[Ali_Cat]

I`m very comfortable being pansexual. I woulden`t wish to be any other way.

[Wicked_Syn]

EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit - EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit


EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit - EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit


EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit - EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit

EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit - EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit


EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit - EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit


EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit - EDIT - EDIT - edit - edit

[relapse]

yeah! happy.

[Jonathon]

I'm straight and I just live with it. I never really considered sexuality such an important thing that people should get all serious about. Learn to accept people for who they are.

[Alexithymia]

Um. Gay, not proud, but happy? That describes my sexuality.

[Sogeking]

Please don't bump old threads. The bump limit is two months.

:locked: