Serious help!!

[Jordee-G]

Basiclly, my best fried (girl) is in a very hard situation


She is going out with boy 1, she loves him loads, and she met boy 2 and has kind of fancied him for a while, and she loves them both so much, and this has been going on for about a month now, and 2 weeks ago she split up with boy 1 and a few days after she gave boy 2 a blow job and the next day got back with boy 1, and just now boy 2 sent her such a nice email, it brought a tear to my eye and she was in tears, she dosent know what to do. HELP

[2D]

Tell her to stop being a whore.

[clr9823]

Give her a slap? Bucket of cold water? What Motormouth said?

[ChaoticHarmony]

Tell her to stop being a whore.

that was kinda uncalled for.....

well first of all she made everything even more complicated by blowin the guy...everything always gets worse when sex is involved.
she needs to follow how she loves emotionally, not necessarily sexually. tell her to ask herself: who is nicer? who is more sweet? who will treat her well? whos gonna be there for her when she needs it most? which one doesnt really care about the sex?
the one that wrote the letter sounds pretty good. but i wouldnt know. she needs to analyze her options and pick the best one for her. not go back n forth btwn the two...it wont end nicely

good luck to her!

[clr9823]

that was kinda uncalled for.....



Whore: a promiscuous or immoral woman

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Although the language may not be appealing, that is what she is. We need to stop taking the softly-softly approach, and start telling it a bit straighter.

[WonderChild]

Tell her to stop being a whore.
I have to agree with Motormouth because you don't just give some dude you have a crush on a blow job and then the next day get back with your ex. I hate to say this but... her definition: Whore/ needs Caricaturist. Sorry if it sounds mean, but its fact.

[Art_dude]

I don't think it's all that possible to tell you what guy to choose based on the brief scenario you gave us. However if she chooses to go back to boy 1, she needs to be honest and admit what she did with boy 2. I wouldn't call a stranger I don't know a whore, (cmon guys that's harsh) but what she did was a little whorish.

[Nihilus]

Tell her to make up her mind about which boy. It isn't nice to give a possible bf a bj then go back to the ex.

[Englishrose]

One, I don't personally think you should get involved. Let your feelings be known, but don't even attempt to persuade her decision. Its not what your role as a friend involves, advisory, and that is it.

So on that note, don't get involved, only your friend can make the decision, its going to be her relationship not hers. So yes, if she wants to talk about it, go for it, be there for her, but don't even attempt to get involved, it will only come back and hit you in the face. It almost always does.