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*Dissident*
June 7th, 2006, 12:31 AM
Ok, so heres the deal. All year long, I have had a crush on this girl, right? I never really made a move, because I thought she might not like me, or think I was fat or something. So, at the end of the year, my BEST friend starts hanging out with this girl, and he says they are going out now. I know I shouldve made a move and all, but I still have feelings for this girl, but I'm afraid my friend would hate me and the girl would say no.... I cant see myself with anyone else...I need to know what to do!

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June 7th, 2006, 01:59 AM
Talk to your friend, he might understand, and talk to the girl, you need to remember her feelings in this, if she's happier with your friend then let things take their course, who knows, they might break up.

infra_red
June 14th, 2006, 11:17 AM
Talk to your friend, he might understand, and talk to the girl, you need to remember her feelings in this, if she's happier with your friend then let things take their course, who knows, they might break up.

I agree with popo because ive been in a similar situation before and it hurts 2 see a girl u like with sum1 else. I think you should deffinately talk to the girl and tell her how you feel but also mention that you dont want it 2 break your friendship. Make sure she is happy when you tell her and you might get a good result as opposed to if you tell her wen shes unhappy. Anyway, with your best friend, it may b a good idea to tell him afterwards but make sure he is happy with you too. Make sure he doesnt feel that you are sayin it just for revenge but make sure you tell him nicely.

Hope this helps good luck with your friend and the girl of your dreams :P:)

mr_smite1
June 15th, 2006, 04:18 AM
I aggree with infra red. I have recently been put into that situation and it hurts. Espescially when he moves away...to birmigham. But she cant see the aspect of...IT WONT WORK! So i think infra and popo have given you good advice. PM me if u wanna chat further.