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TaintedBlood
February 12th, 2010, 12:35 PM
Okay, so I was sitting out of PE, right? and there was this guy who was also sitting out. We start to chat about things and then he asked me some...awkward questions and told me things that I didn't want to know about. And I sorta told him a few things that I shouldn't have told him...
We promised eachother that the convo would be only between us. But, during lunch he was sitting with his friends and when I walked by his friends were making fun of me as if they knew something. And during social studies one of his friends had to sit by me and his friends were like "OOHHHHH" and then that got me angry so I told my friend about the convo. Before I could tell her not to tell anyone she dashed across the room to tell her other friend everything I told her. After that class everyone started asking the guy questions about that convo.
I'm not sure if he really told anyone about that convo. By the way his "friends" were acting he must have told them something. I'm confused and I feel really bad about saying anything. What should I do? :what:

Mattasaur94
February 12th, 2010, 07:20 PM
Well.. Firstly you should've talked to the guy first, asking him if he said anything. His friends could quite easily just be bagging you out in general or being just stereotypical arrogent kids and annoying you because you sat next to one of their friends.
Either way, you should probably talk to him, see if he said anything.
If he didn't... you'll need some serious explaining,
If he did... Then you'll need to find out how much he said or work things out.

=)

Art_dude
February 14th, 2010, 05:03 PM
pretty much ditto to what Matt said.

Those kids could've been pulling your chain for the sake of playing around with you. Or he very well could've told them. If it's the latter case I would highly suggest doing some damage control and confronting him about it before it spreads like wild fire. I wouldn't even bother sharing it with your friends. They might be tempted to share it. I'm sorry that happened. Sounds like a drag :( ((HUGS))

Watchfulness
February 15th, 2010, 10:37 PM
You need to be sure if your judgment on who can be trusted is plausable.
Obviously, those are not really friends.

Don't mention anything more about the conversation, from my experience, most friends doesn't care at all should they hurt you or not.

Mariophys
February 16th, 2010, 02:10 PM
Don't mention anything more about the conversation, from my experience, most friends doesn't care at all should they hurt you or not.

Such actions don't go along with the meaning of "friend". I notice that people tend to use the term that widely that it tends to lose its meaning