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Baudelaire
February 11th, 2010, 11:36 PM
Um, well I was curious about this topic, right now, I really like guys, and I'm afraid of it, I really am, because I want to like girls to but theres no spark....
I dont want to be seen as gay, every time I hear that word it's used in such a negative way....it's almost like its a common adjective!!! "That's gay" I mean I hate hearing that! I want to know if its at all possible to be straight after almost being sure of homosexuality.

Charizard8
February 11th, 2010, 11:47 PM
I feel like that occasionally

Mr. Smithers
February 11th, 2010, 11:48 PM
No. You should stop letting other people bring you down like that. You have to be proud of yourself, and you have to accept yourself.

Nelson
February 11th, 2010, 11:59 PM
No. You should stop letting other people bring you down like that. You have to be proud of yourself, and you have to accept yourself.

Correct, I used to get really down on myself when people would say "thats gay" or "eww get away you homo"

Just because you like guys doesnt mean your GAY... you could be BI, that way you can still like chicks

Baudelaire
February 12th, 2010, 12:04 AM
I know.....I just hate being labeled, it isn't fair because it's judging someone because of one little aspect, I mean I'm certain I could make fun of other people. or point out there insecurities, but oh just because I happen to be sexually curious its some how hilarious....

Nelson
February 12th, 2010, 12:10 AM
Well you dont need to have a label, if someone asks just say dunno or not tellin

Gay Bot
February 12th, 2010, 12:18 AM
DIAGNOSIS: Gay

obknobe
February 12th, 2010, 01:31 AM
I am pretty happy being me. Just what I am, as I am. It happens that I'm bi and that is me. I accept you as you are so you accept me exactly as I am and I will too!! GREAT question btw.

Charizard8
February 12th, 2010, 04:51 AM
I feel that way a lot, I get confused, should i be straight, should I stay bi? Everytime I look at my son I think staight, but when I am not near him, I think bi

CuriousDestruction
February 12th, 2010, 02:00 PM
i know it's scary. and you sound like you are in a school that doesn't really accept gays very well. i know the feeling. but YOU have to accept who YOU are. forget school, friends, and parents. who you think you are is all that matters. it's okay to like guys. you have to accept that. but also remember that you are still a teenager and your sexuality hasn't fully developed. things may change. things may stay the same. it's all up to chance.

thepieman
February 12th, 2010, 02:27 PM
Well, your sexuality can change again and again as you go through puberty. But, please, don't stop being gay just because of what everyone else says! Don't listen to them. Ignore them. Be proud of who you are, and if you are truly happy with your sexuality, then you don't need to change it.