Unexperienced boyfriend!!

[callmemorgi]

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[XxHaViiK]

Well, you need to make sure that he is ready to be making steps forward in the relationship first. If he seems uneasy on the subject, then give it some time.

[callmemorgi]

Well, you need to make sure that he is ready to be making steps forward in the relationship first. If he seems uneasy on the subject, then give it some time.

Yeah well I told him right to start off the relationship I wanted to take things really slowww. But when we were making out and stuff and I asked him what he was thinking and he said that he rlly wanted me, and were obviously not going to have sex right now but i think he is ready and wants to take things to the next level.

Ya know? But i think hes afraid because he thinks he might be rushing things... Idk....

[Sumitup]

Given that you are the experienced one, you should probably initiate things. Especially since he may not know exactly what to do. You may need to actually tell him what you want, after all he isn't just going to know. Anyways, communication is the best way to keep a relationship working.

[Mr. Smithers]

You have to be in his position. I'm sure in your past relationships, you were the one that was the un experienced one. Now he is the one. You can ask him if he would like to do those sorts of things with you. May not be that he is shy, but its how conservative he is. But is always good to explain to him, whether or not he thinks its time we move up from just kissing.

[nick]

Its awkward for a guy if he's inexperienced and knows that you are not because he will most probably worry whether he's going to be as good at things as the guy(s) before. This may make him somewhat nervous to try anything, so just be sympathetic to that and be sure to be encouraging.

[WonderChild]

Maybe he is nervous of going to far and hurting you. Talk to him find out what position he is in. Just wait till he is comfortable, thats the best thing to do. For example: My ex wanted me to make out with her, I never kissed a girl so i ended up never kissing her cause I was nervous.

[searching]

He may have listened to you when you said you wanted to take things really slow and isn't quite sure how fast to proceed. If I were you and I wanted things to proceed a little faster I would start initiating things and see how he reacts. As others have said previous communication is key. Good luck.

[Art_dude]

Since you're the female in the situation, if you initiate, he will undoubtedly respond well. Trust me, if he's 16 and has a penis, and his girlfriend wants to show him something new he'll be verrrrry happy :P I don't expect he'll put up a fight....

Don't necessarily throw yourself at him though, just go for it and gauge his response. If you sense he's uncomfortable, ask him and pump the brakes a bit. I think it's a little too soon to be thinking about sex, but I think if you start moving into the blowjob/fingering arena he'll be fine. LIke Matt said below me, "[it] Doesn't take a genius to shove some fingers up a vagina"

[Hatsune Miku]

If you really love him you wont care if hes "unexperienced"
Anyways, If I was him and I knew you already did all these things, I would just walk away
He'll learn, it'll come to him naturally.

Doesn't take a genius to shove some fingers up a vagina

[Englishrose]

Relationships aren't all about sex. Don't pressure your boyfriend into anything, you wouldn't like it if a guy did it to you, so give him the same courtesy. He's obviously very nervous so just give him time, and when he is ready lead him through it. Sex is completely natural, and usually during our first time, we experiment with our technique until we perfect it. Let him try and then tell him what you like and how he can do it. Also, don't forget to return the favour. Sex isn't a one way thing. Just lead him through it gently, and allow him to experiment with new techniques.

[Watchfulness]

He is the man, let him iniate it.
Aslo, consider if he is comfortable with the idea before declaring conclusions.

[Antares]

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