Other girls :(

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Me and my boyfriend are 16 I've only had sex with him, in the past he's had sex with 3 other girls and one of them twice but doesn't even remember her name. He's done other thing with many like 10 girls. We've been dating for a year and 4 months. I really love him but his past is so much for me to handle what do I do?

[Sumitup]

You have to consider that he had to start somewhere, and in those previous relationships he learned what he did and didn't like in a girl and that eventually led him to breaking up with each of them and ending up with you. Yes, he has done more, but you two don't necessarily need to be on a level playing field. Consider the fact that you've been together for over a year, if he hasn't cheated on you, he may feel he has found someone he is happy with.

[Mr. Smithers]

If you have been with him for that long, then you probably love him too much to let his past question your relationship.

If you truly love him, and if he loves you, don't worry about who he used to be with. A relationship longer than a year means that he probably really loves you.

[hardcore-smile]

He almost cheated on me he told another girl he wanted to hangout with her and wanted a big hug and a kiss on the cheek and told her that he always wanted to do stuff with her (this is a past girl) also all the girls he's done stuff with he wasn't dating

[cooldude123]

He almost cheated on me he told another girl he wanted to hangout with her and wanted a big hug and a kiss on the cheek and told her that he always wanted to do stuff with her (this is a past girl) also all the girls he's done stuff with he wasn't dating

If you truly love him, you won't let the past bother your relationship.

However, If he almost cheated on you, that's totally a different story. 'He always wanted to do stuff with her' - How long ago was this? If is was a long time ago, try to forget about it. But if it was recent, then things may be going downhill.

If it is recent, why don't you try telling him how you really feel. After all, if you really love him, and he loves you, he should understand.

[DoveGreySands]

You've been in a relationship for over a year! The other ones sound like one night stands, I wouldn't worry about it! Seriously! :)

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It happened in sept but I just found out about it recently

[cooldude123]

It happened in sept but I just found out about it recently

Then stop worrying about it.

As others have said, you have been in a relationship for over a year... Everything should be fine...

[dmeek7]

some people think that the past is an important thing. i say 'the past is the past' concentrate on NOW...concentrate on all the good things

[cooldude123]

some people think that the past is an important thing. i say 'the past is the past' concentrate on NOW...concentrate on all the good things

Exactly...