Can't believe this…*>_>

[Dreaming Cannibal]

So, no other way to put this but… am i a jealous bitch?
Story time

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a long time, but before going out he liked a different girl. I knew that before going out with him and hell i though he would get over her since he doesn't live in the same country as her anymore. Well, now every time she is mentioned in his house something in me switches and depending on his response i either get mad or continue on with what I was doing. Yesterday I had a glimpse of his facebook home page when he turned the computer towards me, and i saw a conversation chat thing that was her, she wasn't online and of course i didn't open it. But I got so mad about it. Other incidents like this have happened but nothing that got me so angry.

And this has happened with two other girls, one of them is in his swim team and i just got jealous of her. No idea of why, and after i told him every time i'd see her on the halls of school she would give me weird looks, and course I didn't just take it i gave her my most hateful look… and now she doesn't matter…*at all. and the other girl was a girl in one of his classes of course this seems insane but, i saw him flirting with her. and she doesn't matter anymore.

hmm if this is a must know… it all of them were in a different time… for the two random girls it was one in november and the other in january. The first girl, well that one doesn't have a time frame, but the incident i mentioned as i said happened yesterday

so what my verdict?

[Obscene Eyedeas]

I believe you are insecure nd lack trust in ur bf. which is a bad sign because you cnt have a relationship without trust believe me.

[L]

i believe hormones can do this, i've read that boys can do the same thing. you should learn to trust your bf, theres nothing wrong with him having a conversation with another girl, just like theres nothing wrong with you talking to a boy other then him. maybe you should talk to him about your insecurities, hearing his opinion might help.

[Resinflux]

Maybe you should talk to him about it, I mean I could understand not wanting you reading his conversation but come on your not the only one to blame..

[Marcie]

I believe you are insecure nd lack trust in ur bf. which is a bad sign because you cnt have a relationship without trust believe me.

I'm going to have to agree with Crystal, it does seem like you have very little trust in your Boyfriend, and a lack of trust is not a good thing in any relationship. Though I do see jealousy in there as well.

[Jenna.]

I'm kind of the same way. If I found out that my boyfriend was talking to all these other girls (especially a girl he used to like) I'd be pissed, but I'd probably say something to him and the other girls. It's not that I don't trust my bf, cause I do, but I can be possessive cause I don't want to share him with anybody else. =P Maybe you're the same way? I don't think some jealousy is a bad thing. But if it keeps up, I would definitely say something to him. He might stop talking to them altogether if he knows it upsets you so much.