Need motivation to see mates!

[jakeandrew15]

Past year or two I had a school problem and changed too a pupil referral unit which I'm still at now, and thoroughly enjoy it!. But been putting off meeting up with them becuase I hate the questions 'Why did you change schools ect'. Even though they still bug me on messenger to go out lol. So haven't been out with friends for like a year and just don't want to go out:rolleyes:.

[Nelson]

Hi, umm i dont exactly know what a pupil referall unit is but i get the drift, if you dont associate with them they could get the wrong message, they might genuinly want to be friends with you.

[Sugaree]

Past year or two I had a school problem and changed too a pupil referral unit which I'm still at now, and thoroughly enjoy it!. But been putting off meeting up with them becuase I hate the questions 'Why did you change schools ect'. Even though they still bug me on messenger to go out lol. So haven't been out with friends for like a year and just don't want to go out:rolleyes:.

They're your friends, they WANT to see you, they WANT to talk to you. You just don't brush them off to the side like you have been, that sends the wrong message. You don't need motivation from us, you need the motivation to establish a new connection with them. If you hate the questions, tough shit. Man up and answer them. When I changed schools, my friends all asked me why I did. I answered them truthfully and honestly and they appreciated it. They bug you because they're anxious to really meet you again. If you are so desperate to meet them again, then don't put it off and DO IT.

It's not like it'll be some earth shattering experience if you do. Besides, it's always good to meet up with old friends and I'm sure that both parties will be happy if you meet up again.