How to get her...

[yankeefan7723]

I've known this girl for about 2 and a half years, in 10th grade atm, and over the summer I've realized that I liked her. She's cute, intelligent, deep, caring, etc. We've never hung out outside of school but we talked a lot in school. I don't have her number. I would have asked for it probably sometime this year but we have no classes and have only talked a few times since school started and they were very brief. I have her myspace though I can never seem to be on when she is. She's so outgoing but I have read her about me's, she changes them often, and I've found out that she's so much more than I thought she was. Like I thought she was just this loud, outgoing, cheerful girl but she's so much deeper.

On one of the about me's I read she said she's single and isn't looking for a guy. This was maybe 3-4 months ago. Since we haven't talked a lot in a while we've kind of drifted. Not in the sense of not being friends anymore but just that closeness and trust has diminished.

Only time I can talk to her is after 6th period. I have her 6th period class during 7th and lunch 6th so I get out early and if I'm lucky make it there before the bell rings. That way I can get in the classroom and chat for 20-30 seconds or so.

I just want to know what the best approach is to trying to get her to go out with me. Do I wait until next year and hope we have some classes together and go from there? Do I talk to her on myspace and approach her there? Also how can I tell if she's looking for a guy?

Sorry this was long. I just like to make sure you all know the situation and all. :)

[dmeek7]

Do you have lunch with each other? Aproach her at lunch, and sit with her. Talk about stuff. Just say, "hey can I have your number so we can talk more often"...Pass notes. Write out a bunch of smilies, and make jokes, and put a wink at the end to drop hints. Hope i helped

[booo]

Well, getting numbers isn't hard.
Just ask her if she has an instant messaging screen name and if so, message her and then when you have to go be like "Oh i have to go but text me (###-###-####). And then talk to her.

Good luck <3

[yankeefan7723]

Well, getting numbers isn't hard.
Just ask her if she has an instant messaging screen name and if so, message her and then when you have to go be like "Oh i have to go but text me (###-###-####). And then talk to her.

Good luck <3

That's actually not a bad idea.

As for lunch, that was our only class last year. NO classes at all this year. It sucks.

[WonderChild]

Oke Doke, first of all, I have heard girls don't like being asked out over screens like MSN or something. You should eat lunch with her and then find the right time and ask her.

Good Luck!
WonderChild is with you :p

[yankeefan7723]

Oke Doke, first of all, I have heard girls don't like being asked out over screens like MSN or something. You should eat lunch with her and then find the right time and ask her.

Good Luck!
WonderChild is with you :p

Oh I know that although I did ask a girl out of AIM and got a yes. :)

[death1337]

Well , my first approach would be to make friends with her friends, that always add's another front to the battle of her heart.
Try to not raise suspicion that you like her to her friends to early , but be friendly and polite at the same time
after a while , get into conversations that relate to her IN ANY WAY! ask questions on topic so... let's say they are talking about food, ask her what she likes AFTER you tell her yours otherwise you might sound to interested in her, laugh at her jokes , offer to buy her stuff at the canteen , if she has trouble at a certain subject offer to assist "tutor her".
When you feel the time is right, ask her to be alone with you "stay back behind the flock of people when end school bell rings" and talk to her about anything, try to get her msn\ph number or even her adress if you live close enough.
Now comes the sweet talk , if you have really fallen for this lovely girl there is nothing more you would want to do than to make her feel good, for example "i like the way your hair is today" or " you have beautiful eyes" but when she says thats "sweet" dont react with "thanks" say something like "i wasent even kidding" or somehting along those lines.
after this long grueling process , if she dosent seem interested ,get in early and ask her to the year 10 formal , and START SAVING there is nothing more important to a girls rep than going with someone to the formal that knows his stuff "stretch limo" ect... you know romantic stuff.

* if you feel the time is right before the formal , DONT ASK HER OUT INFRONT OF HER FRIENDS , as they like to gosip and such... try to keep it to a 1 on 1 conversation and not just a phrase like "I RLLY LUV U TBH LETS GO OUT"...

Was nice to help :P hope this works for you