So ... What did I do?

[Amyxoxo]

So...
Me and my boyfriend broke up about 1/2 weeks ago because I told him about me self harming. I took it ok, because I believed that as soon as I 'got better' we would get back together.
He told me today that he facied someone else and we started talking about sex. It is his birthday tomorrow and he asked me today if instead of getting him a prezzie I would sleep with him. I sort of said yes because I believed that it was a joke. The thing is because he fancies someone else it is weird.
Also before I told him we were talking really seriously about the rest of our lives and children, marrage and moving away. I really hate it. I love him and I dont know if he does me or not. ???:what:

[ILOVEYOU]

i dont get it, do you like to sleep with him or not?.. if you're ok then give it a try, both you will come out happy and fresh, :P. if you let him do you, then he will, i think so :)

[Amyxoxo]

I wouldnt mind to but I cant if I know that he likes her and he is using me for sex. x

[ILOVEYOU]

ow.. now i get it, :). well ask himself, that will this sex be included with love or is just for the fun or it.. if he's good, then he will pick the Love option ;). best of luck! x

[dmeek7]

you are "self-harming yourself"?....does that mean cutting?

[munchausen]

you are "self-harming yourself"?....does that mean cutting?

Yeah.

[Resinflux]

if he likes someone else and wants you for sex innit that kinda wrong...i mean if hes just going have sex with you then go out with that other girl its gonna make you feel bad :(

[Frankenstein's Bride]

It sounds like he just wants sex from you. Don't sleep with him becuase you'll be the one that ends up hurt.

[Seeker94]

I AGREE 100% he is very much using you and he is the one who will end up unhappy for losing you ^.^ but he is just using you for sex.....unfortanitly and sorry for the language but he is a Dick :/ most guys who do that are very self focased but still dont sleep with him he is using you :/ sorry for the info wish you the best of luck with it though

[Inconvenience]

don't let anybody to bullshit u. if he loves u back he mustn't push u about sex. coz love's lot more then fleshy things like getting laid. on the other hand if u want to do it aswell, just to it.

as far as i get he's met someone he gets laid with but says that it's only fleshy with her and love only u. well if i were on ur place it wouldn't matter who he gets laid with as long as i would know he loves me. but i'm not quite sure that u know it for sure that he loves u in return.

that's what i'm saying. figure things out, don't let anybody to use u ;)

[Obscene Eyedeas]

Tbh if he told you he likes someone else he is probably only using you. the best thing to do though is confront him about it.

and btw guys self harming isnt just cutting it can be a number of things like burning too

[Seeker94]

Yupp burning, cutting, ect.

[Aves]

If he likes another girl, I would imagine he's using you. My advice is tell him no on the sex, and make him prove to you that he loves you. Because "making love" and love are two different things. If he can't prove he truly loves you, then he's trying to use you.

[GoldenSnitch]

Say no. He is trying to make someone jealous.