cooldude123
February 7th, 2010, 01:55 PM
Hi all and thanks for the help.
I will just explain the scenario straight off.
I'm 14.
I don't have many friends at school. I have only had one girlfriend in my life that lasted about a month and failed really bad. After that ended, i was heartbroken. This was about 2 years ago. At the start of this year, i got talking to this one girl. We became basic friends. She then had a big fall out with her friend. See, i was friends with both of them but sided with this one girl as a fancied her. There was then 3 of us; Me, this girl and my other friend. Over the next four months we became really good friends. My sister (who is 19) decided to give me some tips on what to do, as i really trust my sister. She said Me and this girl go to the cinema, but with our other friend, so i don't ruin things simply so we have a nice time. When i asked her she wasn't able to go as she was on holiday at that time. So i scrapped that idea and started thinking of a new one. Over the next two months, many things happened. We had almost fallen out of many stupid things. Two weeks ago, this finally cleared up and everything seems to be back to normal. To prove it seems to be back, we are walking home together (us three) and me and this girl worked together in cooking at school last friday. She forgot her work so had to pair up and chose me.
See, i want to simply tell her, but i am terribly at doing so. I don't want to lose more friends out of the little i have. I have become friends with her friends so they don't become a problem. I need to know what the next move is... My sister won't help as she says 'just stay friends', but i don't want to stay at that. I need your help.
If this helps, when i was first getting to know her, we had a 'Truth or Dare' game. She asked me who i fancie. I said they was in our class and if you guess, i will tell you. She guessed every girl except herself. When somebody asked her, she said somebody in a different class, but won't tell anybody (as far as i know).
This bit was be confuesing, so if you don't understand it, ignore it:
One time i saw one of her friends and just said hello and so on. She said she thinks bob (codename for girl i fancy) knows i fancy her.
She said she's just guessing, so i don't believe this at all. I was just mentioning this if it helps.
Question is, what do i do next. If i'm going to ask her, how? This is where i am stuck.
Thanks for the advice, it helps so much :)
I will just explain the scenario straight off.
I'm 14.
I don't have many friends at school. I have only had one girlfriend in my life that lasted about a month and failed really bad. After that ended, i was heartbroken. This was about 2 years ago. At the start of this year, i got talking to this one girl. We became basic friends. She then had a big fall out with her friend. See, i was friends with both of them but sided with this one girl as a fancied her. There was then 3 of us; Me, this girl and my other friend. Over the next four months we became really good friends. My sister (who is 19) decided to give me some tips on what to do, as i really trust my sister. She said Me and this girl go to the cinema, but with our other friend, so i don't ruin things simply so we have a nice time. When i asked her she wasn't able to go as she was on holiday at that time. So i scrapped that idea and started thinking of a new one. Over the next two months, many things happened. We had almost fallen out of many stupid things. Two weeks ago, this finally cleared up and everything seems to be back to normal. To prove it seems to be back, we are walking home together (us three) and me and this girl worked together in cooking at school last friday. She forgot her work so had to pair up and chose me.
See, i want to simply tell her, but i am terribly at doing so. I don't want to lose more friends out of the little i have. I have become friends with her friends so they don't become a problem. I need to know what the next move is... My sister won't help as she says 'just stay friends', but i don't want to stay at that. I need your help.
If this helps, when i was first getting to know her, we had a 'Truth or Dare' game. She asked me who i fancie. I said they was in our class and if you guess, i will tell you. She guessed every girl except herself. When somebody asked her, she said somebody in a different class, but won't tell anybody (as far as i know).
This bit was be confuesing, so if you don't understand it, ignore it:
One time i saw one of her friends and just said hello and so on. She said she thinks bob (codename for girl i fancy) knows i fancy her.
She said she's just guessing, so i don't believe this at all. I was just mentioning this if it helps.
Question is, what do i do next. If i'm going to ask her, how? This is where i am stuck.
Thanks for the advice, it helps so much :)